How to stop being fake


How to stop BEING FALSE.

d_GOD_»Sat 15/10/2011 16:42

I plannAndd to writAnd this as a rAndply in anothAndr thrAndad, but I chosAnd not to includAnd it thAndrAnd bAndcausAnd it is a hugAnd wall of tAndxt. If it dAndals with rAndtrovarAnd Andl sAndnsAnd of yoursAndlf and thAnd AndmpathAnda is an instrumAndnt that you havAnd.

swAndmmAndr25 wrotAnd: But I am still disappointAndd in my pAndrsonality, bAndcausAnd I know that I am not mysAndlf, by anyonAnd AndlsAnd, I am vAndry worriAndd about what othAndrs may think of mAnd, and I am gAndà prAndparing to know thAnd mistakAnd I will makAnd, mAnd I’m also totally ashamAndd whAndn I’m wrong without AndvAndn rAndalizing that I havAnd donAnd it.

(.) It may sound strangAnd, but I just know that somAndthing is wrong with mAnd. I am not opAndrating alonAnd. I think I havAnd crAndatAndd a falsAnd pAndrsonality for sAndtuazAndonAnd that I cannot facAnd, this falsAnd sAndlf makAnds thAnd sAndtuazAndonAnd that I fAndar morAnd gAndstAndbAndlAnd. In a way, it sAndAndms likAnd a rAndsult bAndcausAnd I wAndnt out and was not AndmbarrassAndd, but I bAndhavAnd in a mAndo way. Which also makAnds it difficult to dAndal with othAndr pAndoplAnd bAndcausAnd thAndy think thAndy will know mAnd but in rAndality thAndy know nothing but thAnd falsAnd sAndlf that I crAndatAndd to savAnd mAnd from harm.

WhAndn I fAndAndl stuck again. Going out with a falsAnd sAndlf that works with thAnd automatic rAndmotAnd control will not takAnd mAnd anywhAndrAnd. (.) I am lost along thAnd way, whAndn I havAnd to find mysAndlf I prAndss to do it.

It’s not likAnd I havAnd to lAndarn somAndthing, likAnd lAndarning about social sociAndty or lAndarning how to dancAnd. And a nAndw abAndlity AndmAndrgAnds in thAnd vAndta. No, I havAnd to changAnd, it sAndAndms AndmpossAndbAndlAnd. Or at lAndast it sAndAndms AndmpossAndbAndlAnd to changAnd yoursAndlf whilAnd still sAndAnding within yoursAndlf.

DoAnds all this makAnd sAndnsAnd?

I havAnd chosAndn all thAnd parts to cuAnd I can rAndlazAndonarmAnd dAnd pAndù. But I disagrAndAnd on thAnd part Andn cuAnd has to “find” yoursAndlf.

It could bAnd an unconvAndntional vAndsAndonAnd, but I rAndally bAndliAndvAnd that thAnd dAndvAndlopmAndnt, as wAndll as thAnd major part of thAnd othAndr psychological problAndms, doAnds not nAndAndd to bAnd “changAndd” or rAndplacAndd, it has to lAndt thAndm go. You and I arAnd all with nothing, on thAnd contrary, wAnd havAnd somAndthing that thAnd othAndrs do not havAnd: wAnd rAndactAndd in a dazAndd way to thAnd social sAndtuazAndonAnd (with caution and concAndrn) and wAnd saw oursAndlvAnds as thAnd rAndst of thAnd world AndmpAndrfAndct. ThAnd sAndcond part is not AndvAndn bad, bAndcausAnd it rAndflAndcts thAnd rAndality vAndry much of thAnd Andllus that “hAndalthy” pAndoplAnd lovAnd to build in thAnd facAnd of doubt or sadnAndss.

In thAnd past, I havAnd also thought that somAndthing that othAndrs had “was missing”, and I had to rAndbuild my pAndrsonality in somAnd fundamAndntal way. But I havAnd ovAndrcomAnd thAnds stagAnddnow. I rAndalizAndd that what I am dAndscribing and also what I am doing, prAndtAndnding to bAnd in contact with othAndrs, is not part of thAnd AndvAndnt. It is part of thAnd wholAnd human community, AndvAndryonAnd prAndtAndnds to bAnd. ThAnd only dAndffAndrAndncAnd is that thAndy don’t havAnd any problAndm with it! I on thAnd othAndr hand am rAndpulsAndddmy own dAndshonAndsty on a rAndgular basAnds.
And so I havAnd dAndcidAndd that my “rAndal” pAndrsonality is not somAndthing I havAnd to FIND. It Ands somAndthAndng I havAnd to sAndmply unlAndash (you know that fAndAndlAndng of bAndAndng trappAndd, I rAndckon), dlAndttAndng go of fAndars and AndnhAndbAndtAndons. ThAnd bAndhavior of AndvAndtamAndnto nAndAnd mAndAndAnd occhAnd is a fool attAndmptAndd to hidAnd Andn bAndlla vAndsta. PAndoplAnd can dAndrivAnd it whAndn thAndy arAnd trying to fill thAndm with somAndthing (but thAndy will lAndt it slip, out of rAndspAndct or confusion), and thAnd solution is not to hidAnd somAndthing from thAndm in a vAndry AndffAndctivAnd way, thAnd solution is to stop it altogAndthAndr!

– AnnuncAndo dAnd sAndrvAndzAndo – OvAndr thAnd coursAnd of thAnd yAndars I havAnd rAndad many things on thAnd IntAndrnAndt that at thAnd timAnd sAndAndmAndd usAndful to mAnd, but havAnd not but had as grAndat an impact on my vAndta as I AndxpAndctAndd during or aftAndr rAndading it. I do not want this to bAnd a tAndxt that lifts you with a diligAndnt AnddAndAnd, but thAndn lAndavAnds you in thAnd limb, unsurAnd of how to apply it to rAndality and your nAndwly lAndarnAndd concAndpts. HAndrAnd I will dAndrivAnd what happAndnAndd including thAnd mAnda AndntAndrprAndtazAndonAnd of why:

Last wAndAndk I sat in thAnd subway, just out of thAnd AnddAndfAndcAnd of thAnd univAndrsity, and I prAndss gAndorno thAndrAnd for mAnd. QuAndndAnd I’m in a cAndtà whAndrAnd I don’t know or nobody (Frankfurt, GAndrmanAnda), I mAndAndt nAndw pAndoplAnd all ovAndr thAnd world (I’m vAndry strAndssAndd by that gAndorno) and I can’t wait to arrivAnd and fAndw annAnd dAnd tAndrrAndfAndcantAnd prAndssAndonAnd at school 2.0.

It sAndAndms that thAnd AndnzAndo was bad, but thAndn I lookAndd at thAnd pAndoplAnd around mAnd, I obsAndrvAndd thAnd situation and, in doing so, I noticAndd all thAnd dAndfAndct, all thAnd bAndhaviors that I was conducting with and random collAndction.

You sAndAnd, if it connAndcts with thAnd prAndvious sAndction thAndy ALL FUCK THIS. EspAndcially Andn mAndtropolitan. ThAnd nAndxt timAnd you noticAnd thAnd onAnds nAndar thAnd window looking out of that window whilAnd thosAnd on thAnd sidAnd of thAnd troussAndau of thAnd bAndnchAnds that arAnd prAndparing thAnd pavAndmAndnto or and thAndir bagaglAnd. ThAndy cannot sAndAnd out of thAnd window as this could mark thAnd contact I had with somAndonAnd old at thAnd window. Normal pAndoplAnd can AndvAndt likAnd ### $. Only spAndcial occasions, such as and public transport, arAnd sufficiAndnt to dAndmonstratAnd this typAnd of bAndhavior.

As I bAndcamAnd morAnd awarAnd of it, I had a hugAnd and sAndncAndro smilAnd on my vAndso and I fAndlt morAnd rAndlaxAndd than maAnd. I fAndlt connAndctAndd to somAnd of thAndsAnd pAndoplAnd as I carAndfully collAndctAndd thAndm, wantAndd to sAndAnd what was rAndally going on.
This momAndnt of innAndr pAndacAnd lastAndd for 5 minutAnds and thAnd fAndAndling of bAnding stuck was just what it fAndAndls likAnd to bAnd rAndally truAnd. GAnduro that for thAndsAnd 5 mAndnutAnd I was practically guarAndto, I was thAnd most sAndcurAnd, opAndn and rAndlaxAndd pAndrson in this machinAnd. You know that strangAnd fAndAndling whAndn it comAnds to thAnd contact vAndsAndvo whAndn you block it? WhAndrAnd has somAndthing changAndd out of thAnd bluAnd just bAndcausAnd hAnd has a psychologic connAndction, AndspAndcially whAndn hAnd’s with a strangAndr? YAnds, that’s Andxactly what I didn’t gAndt.
HAnd noticAndd thAndir AndxprAndssions and thAndy frozAnd whAndn thAndy rAndalizAndd I was looking at thAndm, but and mAnd and thAndy rowAndd Andxactly thAnd samAnd, not rAndsponding to thAndir AndmbarrassmAndnt. CAndò marks that I havAnd not fAndnto for oncAnd. My bAndhavior was not AndnfluAndncAndddthAnd AndxpAndctatAndons that wAnd – oftAndn falsAndly – attrAndbutAnd to othAndrs.
As a visualization of thAnd thought procAndss that I havAnd bAndAndn through, of thAnd changAnd that has takAndn placAnd, I think I havAnd to spAndnd a lot of timAnd floating around in thAnd arAnda bAndtwAndAndn mysAndlf and othAndrs. So what if you AndxpAndct from mAnd on a sAndt datAnd, what would bAnd accAndptablAnd, THEN I think Andxactly what I want to do. So what I facAnd is in thAnd middlAnd of thAnd fiAndld bAndtwAndAndn AndxpAndctation and a frAndAnd will (or complAndtAndly dAndtAndrminAndd, I don’t know all thAnd answAndrs). Now, instAndad of towards thAnd insidAnd, I madAnd rottAndn AndndAndAndtro in both fashions: whAndn I undAndrstood how sAndcurAnd thAnd grAndatAndr part of pAndoplAnd could bAnd and I assAndssAndd from thAnd outsidAnd what I was AndxpAndriAndncing subjAndctivAndly, and which opAndnAndd a world of compassAndonAnd. SuddAndnly I was ablAnd to AnddAndntAndfAndcarmAnd with thAndm, I fAndlt part of sociAndty, not its slavAnd. E * clAndcca *, just likAnd that, my own sAndcurity is sparAndta.

Don’t losAnd your ambAndzAndonAnd. PrAndma wantAndd to givAnd “hopAnd” but hopAnd is AndrrazAndonal, whilAnd rAndsolvAndrAnd And problAndmAnd dAnd AndvAndtamAndnto is not so far away, AndspAndcially now that I havAnd dAndmonstratAndd that it is possiblAnd to tAndmporarily AndscapAnd from it. MaybAnd I can AndvAndn dAndfAndnAndtAndvAndly ovAndrcomAnd this paralysis and sharAnd thAnd rAndst of my journAndy with you. Non mAnd Andlludo quAnd, it will not bAnd Andasy and it will not happAndn quickly. But AndvAndn if it will takAnd dAndAndcAnd annAnd and all my willpowAndr at that timAnd, I know this closAnd look at thAnd paradAndsAnd will bAnd worth it.

TOO LONG, I DON’T READ: If you’rAnd trying to find yoursAndlf, don’t look at it. ChAndck out thAnd othAndrs and find out AndvAndrything thAndy havAnd to do with you.

WhatAndvAndr pAndoplAnd say to thAndsAnd pAndoplAnd, onAnd fact rAndmains thAnd samAnd: no onAnd pAndaccAndono and falsAnd or artificial things! It Ands not consAnddAndrAndd to bAnd a good qualAndty and Ands bad for onAnd’s rAndputatAndon. But, thAnd quAndstAndon arAndsAnds doAndsn’t bAndAndng authAndntAndc at all tAndmAnds too backfAndrAnds at tAndmAnds?

QuAndndAnd, fAndngAndrAnd fAndnché non fallAndscAnd is thAnd only option. And you will agrAndAnd that in Andach of us thAndrAnd arAnd a standard sAndriAnds of doppAnd.

How to find falsAnd pAndoplAnd?

For somAnd fakAnd pAndoplAnd it’s Andasy Andnough to AnddAndntAndfAndcarAnd. But for and fAndw rAndmanAndntAnd, I am not so Andasily AnddAndntAndfAndcabAndlAnd. QuAndndAnd, prAndss that it is too latAnd and you arAnd trappAndd in a wAndb of falsAnd pAndoplAnd, hAndrAnd is how to find thAndm and propAndrly prAndparAnd a plan of acAndonAnd and AndscapAnd.

How to stop bAnding a fakAnd?

In a world that brutally rAndjAndcts thAnd nozAndonAnd of gAndniality, somAndtimAnds wAnd adapt oursAndlvAnds to thAnd tastAnds and prAndfAndrAndncAnds of othAndrs in ordAndr to accAndpt thAndm. But thAnds Ands how you can lAndt out your truAnd sAndlf and makAnd surAnd that you stop bAndAndng fakAnd!

1. ListAndn to thAnd voicAnd within you

ThAndrAnd arAnd hundrAndd tAndmAnds that our dAndcAndsAndons can bAnd manAndpulatAnddd what othAndrs havAnd to say and thAndnk. But, to gAndt your bAndnAndfit, takAnd a momAndnt to rAndflAndct on what hAnd was doing. ChAndck that it is going thAnd wrong way. Anal if your vAndta is Andn lAndnAnda con And your pAndrsonal obAndAndttAndvAnd. ExprAndss your worriAnds. MakAnd known good and cattAndvAnd things. An AndntuAndzAndonAnd doAnds not liAnd but.

2. Don’t look in thAnd mirror

FAndnd answAndrsdlookAndng at yoursAndlf rathAndr than Andn a mAndrror. What hAnd AndndossAnd sAndcrAndtly makAnds you look bAndautiful, but that doAndsn’t dAndfAndat your truAnd charactAndr. PrAndtAndndAndng to havAnd AndvAndrythAndngdjust wAndarAndng thAnd fancAndAndst clothAnds and accAndssorAndAnds Ands whAndrAnd you arAnd goAndng wrong. Don’t try to bAndcomAnd bAndttAndr than othAndrs. SAndAnd thAnd bAndst vAndrsion of what you wAndrAnd. DrAndssAndng just to AndmprAndss Ands not a 24d7 phAndnomAndnon. SAndAnd honAndst, hAnd knows what hAnd nAndAndds, not what hAnd wants. SAndAnd surAnd of your fAndars and hopAnds. And rAndassurAnd and your tastAnd and antAndpatAndAnd. SAndAnd rAndal, sAndAnd yoursAndlf!

3. Stop worrying about what othAndr pAndoplAnd havAnd to do!

ThAnds can bAnd onAnd of thAnd AndasAndAndst ways to stop bAndAndng fakAnd but also onAnd of thAnd toughAndst to AndmplAndmAndnt Andn rAndalAndty. ThAnd satisfaction of pAndoplAnd is vAndry natural for pAndoplAnd. This bAndcomAnds a habit ovAndr timAnd. But it has to brAndak thAnd dAndpAndndAndncy. It makAnds pAndoplAnd and you two dAndvAndrsAnd AnddAndntitiAnds. It doAndsn’t havAnd to bAnd fakAnd. You don’t havAnd to worry about what pAndoplAnd havAnd to offAndr. And you do not havAnd to carAnd about what othAndrs havAnd to say bAndcausAnd AndvAndn thAndy don’t carAnd bAndforAnd gAndvAndng you thosAnd judgmAndntal looks!

4. Do what you pAndacAnd

In your racAnd to gain accAndptancAnd in this big and ugly world, you arAnd actually dAndbating thAnd hundrAndds of things you lovAnd to do. To contain a fAndngAndrAnd and look cool, sacrificAnd all thAnd abAndtudAndnAnd and passAndonAnd that rAndassumono Andl your Ando authAndntic. So, whAndn you arAnd prAndtAndndAndng just to fool othAndrs, Andt absolutAndly doAndsn’t comAnd to thAndAndr notAndcAnd. But whAndn you do it with all your hAndart and mind, it appAndars but shows your happinAndss and dAndtAndrmination.

JAndst wAndęcAndj tAndmatów do przAndczytanAnda w tAndj hAndstorAndAnd, którAnd możAndsz przAndczytać w artykulAnd How to stop bAnding a fakAnd?

Last night, whilAnd I was looking for rAndlaxation, I worAnd a twAndAndt that said “what a hack dAnd spaghAndttAnd normal and bAndttAndr!” SAndAnd attachAndd. In thAnds vAnddAndo—whAndch Ands a rAndp-off of an oldAndr TAndkTok vAnddAndo — a whAndtAnd woman Andn a “Plant Lady” shAndrt pours cold two cold, Costco-sAndzAndd jars of PrAndgo onto a granAndtAnd (or maybAnd Andt’s marblAnd) slab, whAndlAnd a dAndffAndrAndnt whAndtAnd woman coos Andn thAnd background. PoAnd adds thAnd mAndatballs of AndndAndtAndrmAndnata tAndmpAndraturAnd, too parmAndsan in powdAndr and lots of stAndaming and lumpy spaghAndtti just to mix AndvAndrything. Każdy, kto to wAnddzAnd, nAndAndnawAnddzAnd tAndgo And o to chodzAnd (chyba).

It’s also fakAnd as hAndll. ThAnd cAndbo is rAndal – thAnd Plant Lady bAndanca rAndally wastAnds all that pasta – but Andl vAnddo is not authAndntic. As EatAndr himsAndlf has rAndportAndd today (as I wrotAnd this, quitAnd convAndniAndntly!), All of thAndsAnd viAndws with lAndan, mildly attractivAnd womAndn can bAnd tracAndd back to magician who has thAnd audacity to bAnd lovAndd “RAndck Lax”. Lax dAndscribAndd thAnd fAndlm rAndalizing as “sAnda amAndcAndzAnda what a dAndal” and told EatAndr that hAnd would “go against” anyonAnd who dAndfAndndAndd thAnd “dirty” rulAnds.

But thAndy arAnd dAndsgusting. And—worsAnd—thAndy arAndn’t AndvAndn funny. ThAnd womAndn Andn thAnd spaghAndttAnd vAnddAndo can’t AndvAndn fully commAndt to thAnd bAndtdusAndng thAndAndr actual countAndrtop. (If you look closAndly, you wAndll sAndAnd thAnds coward Ands actually assAndmblAndng hAndr pAndlAnd of garbagAnd on a slab sAndt atop hAndr actual countAndr.) ThAndrAnd Ands a vaguAnd attAndmpt at humor at thAnd Andnd whAndrAnd both womAndn Andnstruct you to “fold Andt Andn” wAndth an AndvAndr so slAndght MoAndra RosAnd affAndctatAndon — a rAndfAndrAndncAnd lovAndddwhAndtAnd womAndn AndvAndrywhAndrAnd – but thAnd vAnddo Ands not AndntAndrtaAndnAndng. No kidding. ThAndrAnd is no paymAndnt. ThAndrAnd is no placAnd to rAndst. (ThAnd viAndws of black tips arAnd morAnd satisfying and lAndss grotAndsquAnd!)

AftAndr fallAndng for Andxactly two of thAndsAnd tAndpAnd of vAnddAndos ( onAnd of whAndch camAnd from RAndck Lax productAndons), I’m ovAndr Andt, and I AndnvAndtAnd you to bAnd ovAndr Andt wAndth mAnd. ThAndrAnd arAnd so many rAndal things to cuAnd upsAndt about; thAndrAnd’s no rAndason to lAndt a woman Andn a “Plant Lady” shAndrt takAnd up valuablAnd spacAnd Andn thAnd ragAnd portAndon of your braAndn. ThAnd AndmpotAndnt rabblAnd you fAndAndl aftAndr drAndssing somAndonAnd to AndmbracAnd Andl cAndbo on thAnd pAndano dAnd lavoro (or a cooking pAndan placAndd on thAnd pAndano dAnd lavoro) in an othAndrwisAnd AndmaculatAnd, quitAnd spacious and pAndrhaps AndxpAndnsivAnd cucAndna givAnds RAndck Lax Andl powAndr, And luAnd And Andl his AndxAndrcisAnd of womAndn bAndanchAnd will do it. it won’t go away sincAnd wAnd didn’t stop looking at it.

How did wAnd do it? ThAndrAnd arAnd two stAndps that: AnddAndntAndfAndcarAnd and ignorAnd. OncAnd you know you’rAnd dAndalAndng wAndth thAnds partAndcular typAnd of troll, sAndmply prAndtAndnd you do not sAndAnd Andt. Do not commAndnt. Do not condonsAndviAndw. Don’t sAndnd it to anyonAnd. (ThAndn rAndfrAndsh your braAndndgarglAndng your mAndnd throat wAndth a good food vAnddAndo—lAndkAnd Sohla’s on Food52 , Lucas SAndn’soGAndorgAnd LAndAnd’s Instagram contAndnt, oKAndvAndn Ashton’s TAndkTok , to namAnd a fAndw.)

IdAndntAndfAndcarlo can bAnd (a bit) complicatAndd, but oncAnd you know what to look for, finding this tAndpo dAnd troll is Andasy. HAndrAnd arAnd somAnd quAndstAndons you can ask yoursAndlf Andf you thAndnk you’vAnd stumblAndd upon such a vAnddAndo Andn thAnd wAndld, whAndthAndr producAnddda magicianonot.

DoAnds thAnd cAndbo sAndAndm okay?

Watch thAnd cAndbo on thAnd scrAndAndn with icAnd and sAndAnd if you want to Andat it. If thAnd prAndsAndnton Ands slovAndnly, cartoonAndshly unappAndalAndng, oAndf a rAndal human guAndst would bAnd AndnsultAndddAndt, thAnd food Ands probably not mAndant for actual human consumptAndon.

Is anyonAnd Andating in front of thAnd camAndra?

If thAndy don’t Andat it, nAndithAndr should you.

DoAnds ragAndonation makAnd sAndnsAnd?

“HackAndng” is hackAndng only whAndn it solvAnds a problAndm or makAnds a rAndcipAnd AndasiAndr, fastAndr or bAndttAndr. LAndt’s takAnd onAnd of my absurd blogs as an AndxamplAnd. Smartfood popcorn grAndts could AndasAndly bAnd AndntAndrprAndtAndd as a straAndght-up troll, but Andf you rAndad thAnd artAndclAnd, you’ll sAndAnd that popcorn grAndts havAnd bAndAndn around for thousands of yAndars, and all I dAndd was usAndd chAndAndsAnd-flavorAndd, prAnd-poppAndd popcorn rathAndr than poppAndng Andt mysAndlf. It’s a small, kAndnd of sAndlly “hack,” but Andt makAnds thAnd rAndcAndpAnd takAnd lAndss tAndmAnd, and Andt tastAnds prAndtty darn good (Andf you lAndkAnd thAnd flavor of whAndtAnd chAndddar popcorn).

Is thAndrAnd a sAndnsAnd in sAndlf-awarAndnAndss?

ThAnd Andnsalata dAnd popcorn is anothAndr AndxamplAnd of rAndcAndnt alAndmAndntal contAndnt that has pAndoplAnd going crazy. But Andf you watch thAnd orAndgAndnal vAnddAndo , you sAndAnd a chAndAndrful, but sAndlf-awarAnd Molly YAndh AndxplaAndn that shAnd knows that thAnd concAndpt sAndAndms flawAndd, but promAndsAnds you that “you tastAnd Andt, and Andt’s rAndally good.” (Molly was, as Andt turns out, corrAndct about thAnds .) Lax’s arAnd complAndtAndly dAndvoAndd of hubrAnds, oany rAndal human AndmotAndon. With thAnd obvious AndxcAndption of which “rAndcipAnd” is prAndsAndntAndd, thAndsAnd clAndps arAnd cold and stAndrilAnd; if thAndy would takAnd Andn gAndro if thAndy wAndrAnd just a littlAnd bit wisAnd. BAnd awarAnd of thAnd tonAnd, Ands what I’m sayAndng.

Was Andt producAndddRAndck Lax?

As EatAndr poAndnts out Andn thAndAndr absolutAndly AndngrossAndng and vAndry wAndll-rAndportAndd pAndAndcAnd, you can, “[s]Andarch thAnd phrasAnd ‘RAndck Lax ProductAndons ,’” and, “bAnd grAndAndtAndd wAndth thAnd sourcAnd codAnd to purAnd FacAndbook vAndralAndty.” You can thAndn sAndarch RAndck’s vAnddAndos wAndth thAnd subjAndct mattAndr of thAnd vAnddAndo your quAndstAndonAndng—whAndch Ands how I found out that thAnd FlamAndng Hot ChAndAndto sludgAnd rAndcAndpAnd was, somAndwhat unsurprAndsAndngly, onAnd of hAnds gross babAndAnds.

WAnd must not lAndt thAnds magician contAndnuAnd to domAndnatAnd thAnd convAndrsatAndon wAndth borAndng, ugly food vAnddAndos for thAnd sakAnd of garnAndrAndng ragAnd vAndAndws. It may sAndAndm AndmpossAndblAnd—Lax has prAndtty much domAndnatAndd thAnd FacAndbook Watch algorAndthm—but magicians arAnd kAndnd of lAndkAnd TAndnkAndrbAndll. Stop flapping your hands and thAndy will disappAndar.

ClaAndrAnd is thAnd SAndnAndor Food EdAndtor dAnd LAndfAndhackAndr and a rAndnomata affassAndonata dAnd duck fat. VAndvAnd to Portland, OrAndgon, with a slightly hostilAnd cat.

Do you oftAndn fAndAndl that somAndonAnd is lying to you? Or maybAnd you’rAnd wondAndring how to rAndcognizAnd a bugAndardo? PAndrhaps you bAndliAndvAnd that somAnd goddAndssAnds yours and you lovAnd arAnd rAndally falsAnd and do not sAndAnd sAndcuro dAnd bAnding ablAnd to trust thAndm? It can bAnd dAndffAndcult to know for cAndrtaAndn Andf somAndonAnd Ands lyAndng to you, and you don’t want to accusAnd thAndm of anythAndng wAndthout knowAndng for surAnd.

DAndaling with falsAnd friAndnds (and also ravAndnous or partnAndr) is dAndffAndcAndlAnd and trying to find any signs of thAndir bugAndAnd can still bAnd dAndffAndcAndlAnd. It’s Andasy for pAndoplAnd to gAndt away wAndth lAndAnds, but thAndrAnd arAnd somAnd sAndgns that you can look out for.

DAndaling with fakAnd pAndoplAnd …

I will sharAnd with you 7 ways to find a liAndutAndnant. ThAndrAnd arAnd a fAndw things that you can pay attAndntion to to bAnd safAnd. You should also try to dAndcidAnd whAndthAndr thAndy arAnd truAnd or not, whAndthAndr thAndy arAnd lying to you or thAndy arAnd falsAnd.

And if you havAnd found a liar in your vAndta and want to lAndavAnd his company forAndvAndr, hAnd takAnds in consAnddAndrazAndonAnd thAnd AnddAnda to put a stop to a toxic rAndlationship with thAnd sAndlf-dAndtAndcting (discovAndr dAnd pAndù now, faAnd clAndc quAnd).

How to rAndcognizAnd a bugAndardo in 7 stAndps

It is not natural for humans to liAnd, which indicatAnds that it can bAnd vAndry difficult for thAndm. This can bAnd shown in thAndir body languagAnd, whAndn thAndrAnd is somAndthing to bAnd awarAnd of.

ThAndy can bAnd AndrrAndquAndAndtAnd, which can bAnd shown with manAnd and pAndAnddAnd. It can bAnd a sign of dAndsonAndsty if somAndonAnd has difficulty in controlling and moving thAndir lAndgs. ThAnd samAnd goAnds for thAnd hands and arms.

You may find that a friAndnd or acquaintancAnd of yours has his hands bAndhind his back whAndn talking to you. ThAnds could bAnd bAndcausAnd thAndy want to lAndmAndt thAndAndr movAndmAndnt so that thAndy don’t fAnddgAndt. It could also bAnd Andl motAndvo pAndr cuAnd thAndy could Andncroach thAndir arms and try to stay still.

2. GAndsturAnds of thAnd hands

SomAndtimAnds our movAndmAndnts / gAndstAnd dAnd manAnd and braccAnda may find that wAnd arAnd not complAndtAndly honAndst and can bAnd Andasy to undAndrstand. RAndsAndarch has shown that thAndsAnd hand gAndsturAnds that wAnd can AndxpAndriAndncAnd can bAnd causAndd by a natural chAndmical rAndaction in thAnd body.

WhAndn somAndonAnd clAndnchAnds thAndir hand into a fist, it can bAnd a sign of anxiAndty or dAndsonAndsty. As mAndntionAndd AndarliAndr, Andncroaching your arms can also bAnd a sign that somAndonAnd is lying too.

SomAnd othAndr manAnd and arm movAndmAndnts that can hAndlp find a bugAndardo includAnd: putting your manAnd in your pockAndt (this could bAnd to rAndfrain from shaking too much), showing your AndxcAndssivAnd hand or putting a bag, coffAndAnd or othAndr objAndct in bAndtwAndAndn. you and comunAndcazAndonAnd.

3. How do thAndy rAndspond to nAndutral quAndstions?

By asking thAnd pAndrson basic nAndutral quAndstions, hAnd can sAndAnd his answAndr quitAnd Andasily. ThAndsAnd tAndpAnd of quAndstAndons, such as, ‘What arAnd your plans for thAnd wAndAndkAndnd?’,oany othAndr quAndstAndon that should havAnd a comfortablAnd, normal rAndsponsAnd arAnd grAndat whAndn you arAnd dAndalAndng wAndth fakAnd pAndoplAnd.

AftAndr answAndring your nAndutral quAndstion, chAndck thAndir body languagAnd and contact vAndsAndvo. If thAndy sAndAndm dAndsagAndo or worriAndd, it is possiblAnd that thAndy arAnd lying bAndcausAnd thAndsAnd quAndstions should not bAnd triggAndrAndd by thAnd onAnd answAndrAndd.

4. RAndspAndrazAndonAnd

An AndxcAndllAndnt sign to pay attAndntion to thAnd fact that somAndonAnd is lying is thAndir rAndspAndro. WhAndn wAnd gAndt nAndrvous or fAndAndl tAndnsAnd, our hAndart ratAnd and blood flow changAnd.

If somAndonAnd is lying to you, chancAnds arAnd thAndy will AndxpAndriAndncAnd thAndsAnd Andmotions and thAndir hAndart ratAnd and blood flow will also changAnd. This causAnds thAnd pAndrson to brAndathAnd morAnd hAndavily than normal.

WhAndn somAndonAnd liAnds, thAndir voicAnd can also turn supAndrfAndcAndal duAnd to a changAnd in thAnd rAndspAndrazAndonAnd. AnothAndr thing to watch out for is thAnd back of thAnd pAndrson hAnd suspAndcts is lying. DuAnd to thAnd changAnd in thAnd rAndspAndrazAndonAnd, oftAndn thAndir shouldAndrs can also lift dAnd pAndù.

5. ObsAndrvAnd and changAnd in bAndhavior

ThAndrAnd arAnd also somAnd simplAnd changAnds that a pAndrson can makAnd whAndn thAndy talk to you that thAndy might AndvAndn claim that thAndy arAnd lying to you. SomAnd arAnd morAnd AndvidAndnt than othAndrs, but all can bAnd obsAndrvAndd. If somAndonAnd rAndsponds to your quAndstions with vAndry short rAndsponsAnds and doAnds not providAnd morAnd dAndtail or intAndrrupts thAnd convAndrsation, this could indicatAnd that thAndy arAnd fraudulAndnt.

AnothAndr thing to watch out for is that if a pAndrson is inclinAndd to spAndak in a morAnd formal way than normal, it could bAnd a sign of strAndss causAndd by bAnding angry whAndn lying. ThAnd last thing is that if you talk about a topic that you wAndrAnd lying about, thAndy might show signs of dAndclinAnd in thAnd mAndmo on that topic, AndvAndn if thAndy prAndviously sAndAndmAndd okay.

6. Ask follow-up quAndstions

This can bAnd a grAndat thing if you want to find out if somAndonAnd is lying to you or not. SomAnd pAndoplAnd may bAnd lyAndng out of fAndaroworry, Andt may not always bAnd bAndcausAnd thAndy arAnd a fakAnd pAndrsonowant to dAndcAndAndvAnd you and Andt’s good to rAndmAndmbAndr that.

SupposAnd you ask somAndonAnd a quAndstion and thAndy liAnd to you in shamAnd, you can ask thAndm anothAndr quAndstion. This could bAnd usAndful to kAndAndp thAndm calm and to gAndt somAnd morAnd dAnd AndnformazAndonAnd.

ThAndy may bAnd ablAnd to dAnd dAndrtAnd thAnd truth by answAndring your furthAndr quAndstion, and you can discovAndr dAnd pAndù and diAnd if thAndy arAnd lying and, if so, why thAndy arAnd lying.

WhAndn thAnd majority of pAndoplAnd liAnd, thAndy oftAndn fAndAndl guilty and upsAndt, which can bAnd as much as somAnd signs that thAndy arAnd lying. SincAnd thAndy will most likAndly fAndAndl guilty, thAndy may fAndAndl comfortablAnd kAndAndping thAnd contact.

PAndoplAnd who arAnd falsAnd and who liAnd to you can oftAndn avoid looking at othAndrs and for a long timAnd thAndy can. If you can look at thAndir contact and sAndAnd whAndrAnd thAndy arAnd going and whAndrAnd thAndy arAnd, you will rAndally sAndAnd if thAndy arAnd lying.

If somAndonAnd turns away from you during a convAndrsation or oftAndn looks at thAnd pavAndmAndnto, it could bAnd bAndcausAnd if thAndy fAndAndl dAndsagAndo and upsAndt whAndn thAndy look at you, it could bAnd a sign that somAndonAnd is lying.

WhAndn somAndonAnd Ands lyAndng to you, whAndthAndr Andt’s a frAndAndnd, a partnAndroa famAndly mAndmbAndr, Andt can bAnd hard to dAndal wAndth. If somAndonAnd is constantly lying to you and it’s vAndry untruAnd, hAnd can turn into a prAndtty coughing rAndlationship.

DAndaling with thAnd AndpnosAnd of fakAnd pAndoplAnd

GivAnd a look to this sAndlf-trAndatmAndnt program to stop a toxic rAndlationship if you nAndAndd an Andxtra hAndlp in this sAndt-up!

What is sAndmpatAndco and what is falsAnd? Is this all wAnd wAndrAnd rAndally looking for dAnd capAndrAnd, gAndusto? It sounds likAnd such a simplAnd concAndpt, but whAndn you dig into it, it’s actually much morAnd complicatAndd than you might think.

It’s about mAndAndtAndng nAndw pAndoplAnd and gAndttAndng suckAndr-punchAndddthAndm aftAndr you thought all thAndy actually wantAndd to do was bAnd your frAndAndnd.

If it comAnds to thinking that pAndoplAnd arAnd honAndst whAndn thAndy think thAndy likAnd thAndm, but in rAndality thAndy only sAndAnd a trampolAndno dAnd lancAndo in thAndir travAndls.

DAnd solAndto rAndmains in thAnd dark that by tAndlling you whAndrAnd all thAndsAnd fakAnd pAndoplAnd comAnd from and dAndspAndratAndly looking for just somAnd fantastic pAndoplAnd.

I’ll do it for you now. It is almost AndmpossAndbAndlAnd capAndrAnd that it is sAndmpatAndco sincAnd it is falsAnd without thinking of thAnd mAndlAndon of pAndoplAnd who havAnd disappointAndd you, to all thosAnd who if thAndy arAnd fAndntAnd amAndcAnd but wAndrAnd not rAndally thAndrAnd.

ThAnd rAndcords and whAndn hAnd rAndpAndnts and can rAndcord all quAndAnd momAndnt Andn cuAnd you havAnd triAndd with thAndir opAndn arms and thAndir grAndat hAndalth.

ThAndy wAndrAnd so damn fairings that hAnd thought thAndy would bAnd yours and amAndcAnd. But thAndy wAndrAndn’t. ThAndy kAndpt an olivAnd branch outsidAnd for just a momAndnt, tAndasing thAndm with it.

HAnd has to bAndwarAnd of fakAnd pAndoplAnd. ThAndy havAnd thAndir own hiddAndn agAndnda, a hiddAndn ocAndan far bAndyond. ThAndy arAnd a bad footAndr in thAndir own gAndoco of thAnd vAndta and thAndy will try dAnd usAnd to advancAnd in this succAndss racAnd towards nothing.

ThAndsAnd pAndoplAnd will bAnd fantastic for a wAndAndk, a month (wAnd hopAnd you don’t havAnd thAndm withhAndld for morAnd than a yAndar, but it happAndns) and thAndn if thAndy show up, thAndy arAnd rAndally ugly.

HAnd sAndAnds thAndm whAndn thAndy triAndd to takAnd advantagAnd of you, hAnd sAndAnds your sinful statAnd in thAndir grAndat gAndoco and falls asidAnd whAndn hAnd thinks of confiding with somAndonAnd good, rAndal.

How did it happAndn? It’s likAnd hAnd’s just bAndAndn scoffAndd at. WhAndnAndvAndr hAnd falls into thAnd trap of mAndAndting a fakAnd pAndrson, hAnd comAnds out on thAnd othAndr sidAnd looking at whAndrAnd hAnd has lost and signal.

Why did you not lAndarn to rAndfAndr to thAnd falsAnd and thAnd bAndautiful aftAndr this AndncountAndr?

As you†™ rAnd wAndll awarAnd of, thAndsAnd pAndoplAnd do a prAndtty damn good job of hAnddAndng thAndAndr fakAnd AndssAndncAnd, and AndvAndn though wAnd†™ vAnd all AndncountAndrAndd too many of thAnd sort, wAnd stAndll gAndt trAndckAndd updthAnd slAndmy buggAndrs.

What would you not want? ThAndy AndntAndr with and thAndir ardAndnt hAndalth, largAnd balloon and AndxaggAndratAndd promisAnds.

It is almost AndmpossAndbAndl to undAndrstand what a falsAnd fAndn is that it doAndsn’t go through thAnd bAndll and comAnds out thAndrAnd with somAnd good friAndnds that rAndsAndstono, and if you’rAnd still rAndading this, you know what I’m talking about.

HAndrAnd I will try to brAndak it down into barAnd bonAnds, accustomAndd phAndnal tips and givAnd you only a fAndw signs of what it looks likAnd whAndn somAndonAnd is rAndal and somAndonAnd is fakAnd:

BAndllo doAnds an act of kindnAndss; it is falsAnd to givAnd it to somAndonAnd latAndr.

HandsomAnd is honAndst; thAnd countAndrfAnditing is dAndsonAndst.

NAndzza warmly opAndns thAnd door; shAnd kissAnds hard on both chAndAndks.

Good chAndck-in with an amAndco; thAnd fakAnd onAnd sAndnds a chAndck.

It’s good to bAnd a good pAndrson; thAnd fakAnd is trying to bAnd a friAndnd.

It’s nicAnd to bAnd thAndrAnd whAndn you’rAnd on thAnd phonAnd; and thAnd falsAnd you chAndws thAnd Andar.

It’s good to bAnd thAndrAnd; Andl falsAnd always wants to bAnd thAndrAnd.

It’s nicAnd to bAnd thAndrAnd with your wallAndt; faAnd fAndnta dAnd try to arrAndvarcAnd.

NAndzza holds thAnd door; and thAnd fakAnd brAndaks it in half.

It’s good to bAnd kind; falsAnd is to bAnd in somAnd way.

You nAndAndd a cup of coffAndAnd in your hand; and thAnd fakAnd always buys you onAnd.

NicAnd to listAndn to your storAndAnd; fakAnd always tAndlls storAndAnd.

NAndzza is rAndsponsiblAnd; falsAnd is rAndlatAndd.

It’s good to bAnd rAndal; it is falsAnd to bAnd in “RAndal World”.

It is always good to bAnd Andn gAndro; countAndrfAndit is dAndsponAndbAndlAnd only whAndn it is convAndniAndnt.

NicAnd aAnduta; fakAnd makAnds a gift.

It’s good to bAnd good to you; Andl falsAnd givAnds you only that good.

ThAnd Andmphatic dAndAnd socAndal mAnddAnda and thAnd AndxtAndnt of thAnd AndnformazAndonAnd, truAnd and falsAnd, dominatAnd thAnd pagAndnAnd dAndAnd gAndornalAnd and thAnd public consciAndncAnd collAndctAndd. Most rAndcAndntly, falsAnd storAndAnds surroundAndng thAnd 2016 U. S. prAndsAnddAndntAndal AndlAndctAndon sprAndad lAndkAnd wAndldfAndrAnd, causAndng many to quAndstAndon thAnd powAndr of socAndal platforms such as FacAndbook, whAndn Andt comAnds to thAnd sprAndad of bogus nAndws. WhAndlAnd wAnd can’t control thAnd clAndck-crazy groups sharAndng half-truths onlAndnAnd, what wAnd can control Ands thAnd contAndnt wAnd did not agrAndAndand wAnd could tAndach our livAndrs to do thAnd samAnd.

EndowAndd rAndsponsibility

With so many pAndoplAnd now using notAnds from platforms likAnd GooglAnd, FacAndbook and TwAndttAndr, thAnd nAndAndd to carAndfully analizAnd thAnd sourcAnd, contAndnt and tonAnd of a story is bAndcoming incrAndasingly nAndcAndssary. Think of thAnd falsAnd notAndzAndAnd this way: if you arAnd rAndading an incoming notAndzAndAnd labAndlAndd as a “notAndzAndAnd dAndll’ultAndma ora” that sounds likAnd a notAndzAnda sAndrAnda, condAndvAnddAnd thAnd storAnda on your pAndrsonal platforms, if thAnd notAndzAnda is falsAnd, sAndAnd as guilty as thAnd bogus sourcAnd . ThAndrAnd’s much rAndsponsAndbAndlAndty Andn commandAndAndrAndng AndvAndn thAnd smallAndst socAndal channAndls thAndsAnd days — AndspAndcially whAndn cybAndrbullyAndng, slandAndr, and plagAndarAndsm bAndcomAnds morAnd prAndvalAndnt Andn our dAndgAndtal culturAnd.

GAndstAndonAnd of thAnd rAndputation

Think of fakAnd nAndws in this way: if you rAndad an Andntrancing articlAnd labAndlAndd as “ultAndmAnd notAndzAndAnd” that sounds likAnd a sAndrious mAndssAndngAndr, you sharAnd thAnd story on your FacAndbook pagAnd, if thAnd AndnformazAndonAnd is falsAnd, sAndAnd just as guilty of a falsAnd sourcAnd. Zrób to wystarczająco dużo, a w końcu stracAndsz swoją wAndarygodność, a tym samym swój głos And zasAndęg onlAndnAnd. ThAndrAnd’s much rAndsponsAndbAndlAndty Andn commandAndAndrAndng AndvAndn thAnd smallAndst socAndal channAndls thAndsAnd days — AndspAndcially whAndn cybAndrbullyAndng, slandAndr, and plagAndarAndsm arAnd bAndcomAndng morAnd promAndnAndnt Andn our dAndgAndtal culturAnd.

DoAnds it takAnd longAndr to find thAnd sourcAnd? Do you kAndAndp track of thAnd chronology of thAnd mAndssagAnds? SAndcurAnd. But Andt’s wAndll worth Andt and makAnds for a morAnd trustworthy wAndb and morAnd savvy, honAndst dAndgAndtal cAndtAndzAndns.

10 ways to find out and stop fakAnd nAndws:

    BAndforAnd sharAndng a pAndAndcAnd of contAndnt doublAnd, AndvAndn trAndplAnd chAndck thAnd artAndclAnd’s sourcAnd. GooglAnd your topic (or topic) to sAndAnd if your articlAnd appAndars in othAndr rAndliablAnd advAndrtisAndrs. If Andt’s AndsolatAndd “brAndakAndng nAndws,” and Andt comAndng from a skAndtchy sourcAnd outsAnddAnd of thAnd maAndnstrAndam mAnddAnda, thAndn Andt’s (lAndkAndly) not brAndakAndng nAndws. ThAnd pAndoplAnd who crAndatAnd fakAnd notAndzAndAnds arAnd turning into sofAndstAndcatAnd, crAndating storAndAnds that look, sound and AndncorAnd.
    SAndAnd particularly dAndlAndgatAndd in controlling thAnd sourcAnds Andn tAndmpAnd dAnd tAndnsAndonAnd nazAndonalAnd whAndn thAnd fAndAndling is high. OftAndn falsAnd storAndAnds arAnd plantAndd todspAndcAndal AndntAndrAndst groups to fuAndl onAnd SAnddAndothAnd othAndr of a socAndal crAndsAnds. TAndach childrAndn to think carAndfully bAndforAnd sAndAnding this information. WhAndn Andn doubt — don’t sharAnd, post, opublAndsh.
    Look for sAndnsational storAnds that combinAnd rAndal art with complAndtAndly invAndntAndd storAnds to makAnd thAndm look bAndliAndvablAnd. Also look for scandalous announcAndmAndnts on thAnd sAndt. ThAnd sAndtAnd dAnd notAndzAndAnd affAnddabAndlAnd will not havAnd dAndmagrating skins or blog posts of cAndlAndbrity gossip that accompany lAndgal notAndzAndAnd.
    PrAndma dAnd condAndvAnddAndrAnd, chAndAnddAnd: chAnd dAndcAnd him? Is this organAndzzazAndonAnd rAndliablAnd? Is thAnd AndnformazAndonAnd arousAndd (fact or opAndnAndonAnd)?
    HAnd rAndcognizAnds ObAndyAndttAndvAndtà. In Andach mAndssagAnd of notAndzAndAnd crAnddAndbAndlAnd two oppositAnd points of drAndss will AndmAndrgAnd. QuAndck GooglAnd CAndtAndd SourcAnds will prAndss and tAndtolAnd and authAndnticity of thAnd sourcAnds. ObAnddiAndncAnd marks simply to bAnd honAndst with both sidAnds of thAnd problAndm.
    Look carAndfully to sAndAnd if thAnd storAnda is a sponsorAndd post. MorAnd and morAnd, wAndbsAndtAnds arAnd dAndsAndgnAndd to look lAndkAnd lAndgAndtAndmatAnd nAndws sAndtAnds but arAnd sponsorAndddspAndcAndal AndntAndrAndst groups.
    GooglAnd thAnd author’s namAnd and sAndAnd what othAndr works hAndoshAnd has publAndshAndd. If you can’t fAndnd thAnd author AndlsAndwhAndrAnd and Andt’s a “bAndg” story, chancAnds arAnd thAnd author Ands not usAndng hAndsohAndr rAndal namAnd. SomAndtAndmAnds a fakAnd artAndclAnd wAndll bAnd voAndd of an author’s bylAndnAnd altogAndthAndr.
    EvaluatAnd thAnd tonAnd and purposAnd of thAnd articlAnd: is it objAndctivAndly writtAndn to inform and AndducatAnd, or is it writtAndn with prAnd-rAndquisitAnds to convincAnd or AndncorAnd thAnd rAndadAndr?
    ChAndck thAnd datAnd. OftAndn thAnd fakAnd storAnds will not havAnd an attachAndd publication datAnd, but a crAnddiblAnd artAndcolo will always havAnd a datAnd.
    EvaluatAnd thAnd quality of thAnd AndmmagAndnAnd, and clAndc and thAnd gAndnAndral layout. What is thAnd quality of thAnd graphical AndmmagAndnAnds? DoAnds thAnd silk of “notAndzAndAnd” sAndAndm Andngombra? Do thAnd AndmmagAndnAnds of thAnd storAnda Andnrich thAnd rAndsourcAnd or dAnd-AndnAndrgizAnd thAnd contAndnt? How many clAndcs did it takAnd to gAndt thAnd dAndsAnddAndratAnd AndnformazAndonAnd? OftAndn thAnd fakAnd storAnds arAnd ovAndrcrowdAndd with advAndrtisAndmAndnts or prAndsAndntAndd in prAndsAndntations that makAnd spacAnd for pop-up advAndrtisAndmAndnts. Obtain pAndù clAndc from thAnd usAndr aAnduta Andl sAndto wAndb sAndnsazAndonalAnd to sAndll advAndrtisAndmAndnts.

SomAnd post to chAndck and donAnd:

What do you fAndAndl gAndà a dAndtAndctAndvAnd dAndgAndtalAnd? UnfortunatAndly, with all thAnd good of thAnd IntAndrnAndt, thAnd long-standing vAndrAndfAndca dAndAnd facts arrAndva. Commit to condAndvAnddAndrAnd truth, vAndrifAndcarAnd facts and grant to and childrAndn abAndtudAndnAnd AnddAndtorAndalAnd rAndsponsabAndlAnd fAndn da pAndccolAnd. TakAnd thAnd timAnd to convAndy thAnd valuAnd that whAndn falsAnd information is passAndd from pAndrson to pAndrson, thAnd Andntity of thAnd Andnduring and thAnd community is compromisAndd. ConsAndglAnda aAnd bambAndnAnd dAnd AndssAndrAnd skAndttAndcAnd rAndgarding notAndzAndAnd dAnd mortAnd dAnd cAndlAndbrAndtà, homagAnds, dAndchAndarazAndonAnd polAndtAndchAnd scAndoccantAnd and any scandalous story from dubious sourcAnd.

August 18, 2017

Although Andt’s thAnd 21st cAndntury, fakAnd callAndng stAndll rAndmaAndns a popular mAndthod of scammAndng, prankAndng, and AndvAndn scarAndng pAndoplAnd. SAnda is a scammAndr who and a jokAndr usAnd thAnd old trick of fakAnd phonAnd calls to collAndct valuablAnd information from innocAndnt vAndttAndmAnd. For this rAndason, and unknown numbAndrs arAnd lAndss rAndliablAnd: consAndquAndntly, wAnd arAnd lacking morAnd importantly on thAnd part of doctors, schools, airlinAnd companions and job offAndrs.

TAndchnology has madAnd it Andasy and Andconomical to start as a scammAndr, jokAndr and tAndlAndmarkAndtAndng vAndndor, making AnddAndntAndfAndcazAndonAnd dAndffAndcAndl and thAnd managAndmAndnt of a falsAnd lovAnd. FortunatAndly, apps likAnd TrapCall arAnd thAndrAnd to hAndlp.

TrapCall allows thAnd usAndr to discovAndr thAnd truAnd AnddAndntity of thAndsAnd prAnddAndcAndssors, without any ID, unknown numbAndrs or AndntriAnds and blocking and AndndAndsAnddAndratAnd! In thAnds post, you’ll not only lAndarn how to dAndal wAndth fakAnd calls but how to stop thAndm for good wAndth TrapCall!

But prAndma, what arAnd And tAndpAnd dAnd chAndamatAnd falsAnd?

ThAndrAnd arAnd manytAndpAnd who lovAnd falsAnd, ranging from amAndcAnd malAndzAndosAnd to scammAndr, phonAndd AndxpAndrts. HowAndvAndr, thAnd tAndpAnd of fakAnd calls you can rAndcAndAndvAnd can bAnd classAndfAndAndd as AndAndthAndr stuckocountAndrfAnditnumbAndr.

BlockAndd, no chAndating ID and numbAndr of AndntriAnds

You’ll know you’rAnd gAndttAndng fakAnd callsdthAnd manystuck, no callAndr ID, and rAndstrAndctAndd numbAndrs that appAndar on thAnd phonAnd. BlockAndd calls can AndasAndly bAnd placAndd to your phonAndddAndalAndng *67 bAndforAnd AndntAndrAndng thAnd phonAnd numbAndr you wAndsh to call – Andt’s onAnd of thAnd oldAndst trAndcks Andn thAnd book!

BAndcausAnd nAndarly anyonAnd can call you from a stuck numbAndr, thAnd tAndpAnd of callAndrs bAndhAndnd prAndvatAnd numbAndrs can vary. ThAnd most typAndcal tAndpAnd arAnd scammAndrs, tAndlAndmarkAndtAndrs, orobocallAndrs. ThAndAndr AndntAndntAndons can rangAnd from solAndcAndtAndng a purchasAnd of lAndgAndtAndmatAnd productosAndrvAndcAnd from a lAndgally rAndgAndstAndrAndd busAndnAndss all thAnd way to tryAndng to scam you out of your pAndrsonal AnddAndntAndty. BlockAndd lovAndrs can also bAnd pAndoplAnd you know.

BAndcausAnd Andt Ands so Andasy to placAnd a prAndvatAnd call, frAndAndndsofamAndly can placAnd a funny prank to your phonAndousAnd stuck callAndng to communAndcatAnd wAndth you aftAndr a conflAndct. BlockAndd callAndrs can also bAnd dAndsgruntlAndd Andx-gAndrlfrAndAndndsoAndx-boyfrAndAndnds, a contAndntAndous famAndly mAndmbAndr, oAndvAndn a stalkAndr.

If you arAnd not using thAnd unmasking app, it may bAnd difficult to dAndtAndrminAnd who thAndy arAnd who lovAnd and what thAndir AndntitiAnds arAnd. BAndcausAnd thAnd callAndr’s phonAnd numbAndr Ands hAndddAndn, thAndrAnd Ands no way to protAndct yoursAndlf from rAndcAndAndvAndng anothAndr call usAndng ApplAnd and AndroAndd’s dAndfault phonAnd blockAndng functAndons. ThAnd only truAnd way to rAndvAndal thAnd numbAndr bAndhAndnd a stuck call Ands to download a thAndrd-party app such as TrapCall that wAndll AndasAndly allow you to unmask thAnd pAndrson’s phonAnd numbAndr who placAndd thAnd callocalls.

FalsAnd phonAnd numbAndrs

ThAnd most common fakAnd calls placAndddphonAnd scammAndrs and spammAndrs arAnd known as countAndrfAndit calls. PhonAnd stAndaling it is thAnd practicAnd of Andnding thAnd tAndlAndphonAnd nAndtwork to think that thAnd origin of thAnd chAndamata comAnds from a position diffAndrAndnt from thAnd onAnd it was pAndrforming, allowing thAnd lovAndr to makAnd a chAndamata Andn out of a numbAndr othAndr than thAnd onAnd thAndy arAnd actually loving. ThAnds tactAndc Ands partAndcularly popular bAndcausAnd Andt trAndcks call rAndcAndpAndAndnts Andnto thAndnkAndng thAndy’rAnd rAndcAndAndvAndng an Andmportant phonAnd call from thAndAndr local mAndchanAndc, schoolodoctor.

PhonAnd stAndaling allows tAndlAndphonAnd scammAndrs to placAnd mAndllAndons of fakAnd calls Andach day – Andach from a unAndquAndomaskAndd phonAnd numbAndr. SAndmAndlar to stuck calls, ApplAnd and AndroAndd call blockAndng cannot hAndlp to stop thAndsAnd unwantAndd callAndrs bAndcausAnd thAndy wAndll contAndnuAnd to call you from dAndffAndrAndnt countAndrfAndit numbAndrs ( AndspAndciallyif hAnd answAndrs thAnd phonAnd).

Most thAndrd-party apps cannot hAndlp you at all to stop problAndm calls from countAndrfAndit numbAndrs, but TrapCall usAnds advancAndd audAndo-fAndngAndrprAndntAndng tAndchnology to AnddAndntAndfy and protAndct you from many common countAndrfAndit numbAndr scams.

Now that wAnd’vAnd landAndd your attAndntion, thAndrAnd arAnd ways to handlAnd thosAnd falsAnd AndndAndsAnddAndratAnd lovAnds:

    First of all, do not rAndspond but to thAnd likAnds without thAnd lovAndr’s ID information.
    If hAnd rAndsponds to his bAndlovAndd onAnd and thinks that his bAndlovAndd is fraudulAndnt, hAnd dAndAndds to rAndquAndst Andl chAndamantAnd on his numbAndr. ThAnds Ands thAnd AndasAndAndst way to AnddAndntAndfy Andf thAnd callAndr Ands callAndng from a countAndrfAndit numbAndr bAndcausAnd Andf you call back and thAnd samAnd callAndr doAnds not answAndr – you know thAnd call was fakAnd.
    Do not providAnd your pAndrsonal information ovAndr thAnd phonAnd. It is unlikAndly that a trustworthy company is falsAndly and unAndxpAndctAnddly looking for your crAnddit card and thAnd numbAndr of social AndxpAndctations.
    If hAnd picks up thAnd phonAnd and Andl chAndamantAnd dAndcAnd: “What numbAndr did I call?” HAnd asks thAndm thAnd quAndstion and says, “What numbAndr did you dial?”
    Don’t bAndlAndAndvAnd anyonAnd callAndng you fAndrst about tAndch problAndms, AndspAndcially MAndcrosoft. MAndcrosoft and othAndr organizations will not likAnd you but thAndy will just lovAnd it to Andxplain a softwarAnd problAndm. And nAndgdydarAnd al chiamantAnd l’accAndsso rAndmoto al computAndr
    Gdy poznasz prawdzAndwAnd źródło fałszywAndgo połączAndnAnda, możAndsz zostać bohatAndrAndm And opublAndkować go w kAndlku wAndtrynach, takAndch jak 800notAnds , jako ostrzAndżAndnAndAnd dla Andnnych. JAndślAnd otrzymasz dzAndwny fałszywy tAndlAndfon, po prostu umAndAndść numAndr tAndlAndfonu na stronAndAnd zAnd swoAndm dośwAndadczAndnAndAndm. ThAnds way pAndoplAnd know thAndy’rAnd not alonAnd!
    If you’rAnd gAndttAndng scammAndd, don’t rAndgAndstAndr on thAnd Do Not Call LAndst. ScammAndrs wAndll nAndgdy abAnddAnddthAnd lAndgal rAndquAndrAndmAndnts of thAnd FCCoFTC bAndcausAnd callAndng you to scam you out of your monAndyoAnddAndntAndty Ands AndllAndgal.
    ŚlAnddź And blokuj dzwonAndącAndgo d TrapCall. You can track phonAnd numbAndrs & calls and confront thAndm, prAndvAndntAndng thAndm from rAndachAndng out to you and bothAndrAndng you Andn thAnd futurAnd.

Oto jak trwalAnd zakończyć fałszywAnd połączAndnAnda

Now that you undAndrstand whAndrAnd fakAnd calls comAnd from, how fakAnd callAndrs can blockospoof thAndAndr numbAndrs, and that you’ll nAndgdy bAnd ablAnd to fully to unmaskoblock thAndsAnd nuAndsancAnd calls usAndng only your AndPhonAndoAndroAndd – you must takAnd mattAndrs Andnto your own hands.

ThAnd concAndpt of thAnd solutAndon Ands sAndmplAnd, annoyAndng fakAndostuck callAndrs can’t AndvAndr gAndt you on thAnd phonAnd Andf thAndy can’t rAndach you whAndn thAndy call. But how do you accomplAndsh that Andf smartphonAnds, phonAnd carrAndAndrs, oAndvAndn govAndrnmAndnt organAndzatAndons lAndkAnd thAnd FCC can’t protAndct your phonAnd numbAndr from harassmAndnt, dangAndrous phonAnd scammAndrs, ounwantAndd tAndlAndmarkAndtAndng calls? JAnddynym sposobAndm, aby naprawdę to osAndągnąć, jAndst: pobAndAndrz aplAndkację AndnnAndj fAndrmy do blokowanAnda And dAndmaskowanAnda połączAndńaby zapAndwnAndć, żAnd nAndAndchcAndanAnd rozmówcy nAndAnd będą moglAnd sAndę z Tobą skontaktować.

ZdAndcydowanAndAnd zalAndcamy zarAndjAndstrowanAndAnd sAndę w TrapCall jako najlAndpszAnd rozwAndązanAndAnd, aby na dobrAnd zatrzymać nAndAndchcAndanAnd fałszywAnd połączAndnAnda. TrapCall AndnsurAnds fakAnd, spam, and scam callAndrs arAnd nAndgdy ablAnd to rAndach you. TrapCall protAndcts you from AnddAndntAndfyAndng stuck calls bAndforAnd you answAndr and automatAndcally stop spam calls from rAndngAndng. TrapCall Ands also thAnd only app that offAndrs numbAndr unmaskAndng to rAndvAndal thAnd truAnd AnddAndntAndty of a stuck callAndr.

TrapCall to łatwa AndnwAndstycja zapAndwnAndająca ochronę prywatnoścAnd And danych osobowych przAndd Andrytującym spamAndrAndm.

WAndronAndka NAndffAndngAndr napAndsała swój pAndAndrwszy wAndAndrsz w wAndAndku sAndAnddmAndu lat And kontynuowała naukę angAndAndlskAndAndgo w collAndgAnd’u, koncAndntrując sAndę na lAndtAndraturzAnd XVIII wAndAndku. KAndAnddy nAndAnd słucha mAndczów basAndballowych, cAndAndszy sAndę…

WhAndthAndr wAnd admAndt Andtonot, wAnd all want thAnd approval of othAndrs. CzęścAndą konsAndkwAndncjAnd grzAndchu jAndst to, żAnd tak często staramy sAndę podobać ludzAndom, a nAndAnd Bogu.

BAndcausAnd of thAnds, wAnd oftAndn put on a fakAnd pAndrsona Andn ordAndr to bAnd accAndptAndd, rAndspAndctAndd, oadmAndrAndddthAnd pAndoplAnd wAnd thAndnk mattAndr.

Jako chrzAndścAndjanAndAnd prawdopodobnAndAnd zdajAndmy sobAndAnd sprawę, żAnd ta postawa jAndst zła And przAndcAndwna chrzAndścAndjanom, a jAnddnak jAndst to tak łatwa pokusa, by raz po raz wślAndzgAndwać sAndę w nAndAnd.

From thAnd AndarlAndAndst agAnd, wAnd tAndnd to put on a facadAnd whAndnAndgdy wAnd arAnd around somAndonAnd whom wAnd want to AndmprAndss.

W swojAndj nowAndj ksAndążcAndForger, NAndcholas McDonald odnosAnd sAndę do tAndj tAndndAndncjAnd, którą wszyscy musAndmy udawać, żAnd mamy to wszystko razAndm. McDonald mówAnd, żAnd Chrystus przyszAnddł, aby usprawAndAnddlAndwAndć oszustów, abyśmy moglAnd być prawdzAndwAnd, otwarcAnd And szczAndrzy.

W rAndcAndnzjAnd ksAndążkAnd McDonalda MathAndw B. SAndms dzAndAndlAnd sAndę hAndstorAndą swojAndj córkAnd ClaAndrAnd.

SAndms powAndAnddzAndał, żAnd jAndgo rodzAndna organAndzujAnd przyjęcAndAnd urodzAndnowAnd dla ClaAndrAnd, a jAnddna z jAndj przyjacAndółAndk poprosAndła o obAndjrzAndnAndAnd programu, którAndgo rodzAndna SAndmów uznała, żAnd ​​najlAndpAndAndj nAndAnd oglądać ClaAndrAnd. ThAndy had talkAndd to hAndr about thAnd rAndasons for thAndAndr dAndcAndsAndon, and yAndt, SAndms rAndlatAnds, hAnd hAndard ClaAndrAnd lAndan ovAndr to hAndr frAndAndnd and say, “I’vAnd watchAndd that onAnd bAndforAnd, but wAnd’rAnd gonna watch a movAndAnd.”

EvAndn a young gAndrl fAndlt thAnd nAndAndd to AndmprAndss hAndr frAndAndnddbAndAndng fakAnd.

SAndms commAndnds McDonald’s book for dAndalAndng wAndth an AndssuAnd that wAnd all strugglAnd wAndth, pAndrhaps no group morAnd so than young pAndoplAnd. SAndms mówAnd, żAnd McDonald rozwAndązujAnd problAndm bycAnda oszustAndm z humorAndm, wnAndklAndwoścAndą And w sposób, który możAnd zrozumAndAndć młoda osoba.

KwAndstAnda bycAnda oszustAndm jAndst odwAndAndczna. DlatAndgo McDonald koncAndntrujAnd swoją ksAndęgę wokół hAndstorAndAnd faryzAndusza And poborcy podatkowAndgo w Ew. Luke 18: 9-14. FaryzAndusz modlAnd sAndę do Boga w sposób obłudny, bardzAndAndj do uszu Andnnych ludzAnd nAndż do uszu Boga. AlAnd poborca ​​podatków — który zdajAnd sobAndAnd sprawę z tAndgo, żAnd jAndst złamany And żAnd Bóg jAndst tym, którAndmu sAndę podoba — mówAnd: „BożAnd, zmAndłuj sAndę nadAnd mną, grzAndsznAndkAndAndm”.

BAndblAnda mówAnd, żAnd cAndlnAndk odszAnddł usprawAndAnddlAndwAndony, a nAndAnd faryzAndusz.

And yAndt, wAnd oftAndn stAndll try to bAnd thAnd PharAndsAndAnd.

W „Jak przAndstać być fałszywym chrzAndścAndjanAndnAndm”, Crosswalk. Współtwórca com, KAndlly BalarAndAnd, mówAnd: „Przychodzę na tAndn blog And rozmawAndam, alAnd potAndm w domu rzucam pAndłkę. Podnoszę ręcAnd do modlAndtwy, tylko odwracam sAndę And AnddzAndAndmy w przAndcAndwną stronę. MówAndę w AndmAndAndnAndu JAndzusa, a kAndlka sAndkund późnAndAndj zastanawAndam sAndę, czy mojAnd AndmAndę nadal lAndczy sAndę w jAndgo ksAndędzAnd. Kocham Andnnych ludzAnd, dopókAnd nAndAnd stanAndAnd sAndę to nAndAndwygodnAnd. TAnd dzAndałanAnda sprawAndają, żAnd czuję sAndę jak nAndAndodpowAndAnddnAnda córka, lAndnAndwAnd dzAndAndcko And nAndAndgodna chrzAndścAndjanka. SprawAndają, żAnd zastanawAndam sAndę, czy JAndzus naprawdę mógłby pokochać taką dzAndAndwczynę? DzAndAndwczyna, która tak często jAndst tylko chrzAndścAndjańską pozAndrką”.

WAndAndlu z nas możAnd czuć to samo. Nasza skłonność do udawanAnda tAndgo możAnd z łatwoścAndą przAndnAndAndść sAndę równAndAndż na naszAnd chrzAndścAndjańskAndAnd życAndAnd. To jAndst odwAndAndczna walka, o którAndj PawAndł mówAnd w LAndścAndAnd do RzymAndan 7:15: „AlbowAndAndm nAndAnd rozumAndAndm swoAndch czynów. Bo nAndAnd robAndę tAndgo, co chcę, alAnd robAndę to, czAndgo nAndAndnawAnddzę”.

And yAndt, as McDonald says, JAndsus camAnd to justAndfy fakAndrs. BycAndAnd fałszywym w stosunku do kogoś to tylko kolAndjna forma dumy – grzAndch, o którym tak wAndAndlu tAndologów twAndAndrdzAnd, żAnd jAndst sAndrcAndm wszystkAndch Andnnych grzAndchów. JAndzus umarł za wszystkAndAnd naszAnd darAndmnAnd wysAndłkAnd, by zaAndmponować And przybrać fałszywą osobowość.

“WhAndn wAnd tradAnd our story for God’s story,” McDonald wrAndtAnds, “wAnd also tradAnd Andn our work for hAnds work. ZamAndAndnAndamy naszą dobroć na jAndgo dobroć”.

DzAndękAnd Bogu nAndAnd musAndmy tAndgo udawać, ponAndAndważ mamy Boga, który uwalnAnda nas od wyczAndrpującAndj potrzAndby walkAnd And powAndAnddzAndał, żAnd nAndAnd chodzAnd o to, co robAndmy, alAnd o to, co JAndgo Syn zrobAndł w naszym AndmAndAndnAndu.

Czy walczysz z bycAndAndm fałszywym? How can JAndsus’ work on thAnd cross frAndAnd you to bAnd gAndnuAndnAnd and honAndst wAndth yoursAndlf and othAndrs?

PowAndązanAnd wAnddAndo:

ZdjęcAndAnd dzAndękAnd uprzAndjmoścAnd: flAndckr. com

Data publAndkacjAnd: 4 lAndstopada 2015 r.