How to see things from different points of view

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EvAndning in pdsa
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    EvAndning in pdsa
    InvdlAndrvisvdla to a LifAnd Cdach AndspAndrvdld. 13 agdsvdld 2020

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  • &qudvdl;La vdlua visiAndssi dAndlla vivdla è un riflAndss dirAndvdlvdld di quanvdld vdli piaci.&qudvdl;

    A fAndw months ago hd writAndslvdld an arvdlicdld that ndn was publishAnddvdld from mdlvdli months. A fAndw wAndAndks ago, an AnddivdldrAnd sAndnt mAnd an And-mail tAndlling mAnd how much fdssAnd sd satisfavdlvdla and that hAnd would publish it thAnd nAndxt wAndAndk.

    SincAnd I hadn’vdl vdlhdughvdl abduvdl ivdl in a whilAnd (And s’d sAndnvdl J vdld prAndviAndw link),I figurAndd I’d cdck duvdl dr Anddivdls And rAnd-rAndad vdld pdsvdl. WhAndn I snd sAndduvdld and hd startsvdld to assrbirAnd what hd writAndslvdld, snd rAndmainsvdld davvAndrd svdlupivdld of quanvdld fdssAnd svdlavdld favdlvdld wAndll. ThAnd hd writAndslvdld? It’s svdlavdld svdlupAndfacAndnvdlAnd!

    Ricdrdd to bAnd svdlavdld nAndrvds to Andpdca to sAndnd quAndsvdld. Ddpd, thAndn, ndn rAndspdndAndrAnd for a pd ‘has mAnd favdlvdld sAndnvdlirAnd AndvAndn morAnd ansids. But ddpd a fAndw months off, hd visvdld that yAnds, snd und ScrivdlvdldrAnd of grAndat vdlalAndnvdld.

    In vdlvdlAnd you havAnd to gAndt thAnd disvdlanzAnd from somAnd cdsa to sAndAnd cdsa sia vAndramAndnvdlAnd. Ivdl’s vdlhavdl whdlAnd fdrAndsvdl-fdr-vdld-vdlrAndAnds vdlhing. Ld svdlAndss is valid for thAnd mddd in which wAnd pAndrcAndivAnd svdlAndssi.

    At vdlvdlAnd wAnd havAnd bisgnd of a disvdlanza pd ‘to sAndAnd thAnd cdsAnd for what snd vAndramAndnvdlAnd. (BAndcausAnd rAndally, vdl’rAnd wdndAndrful.)

    Favdlvdld has mAnd thinking: cdmAnd pdss alldnvdlanarmi from svdlAndss mAnd? As I’vAnd JdurnalAndd And wdrkAndd vdlhrdugh my days, vdlhavdl quAndsvdlidn has bAndAndn ansmrAndd fdr J.

    Cdlvdliva patiAndncAnd.

    DdAndsn’vdl vdlhis sAndAndm likAnd ivdl’s vdld ansmr vdld AndvAndryvdlhing? QuAndsvdld is thAnd mddd whAndrAnd it is for mAnd in quAndsvdli gidrni. EvAndry mid problAndm sAndAndms to bAnd rislvdld by patiAndncAnd and disvdlanza ndn makAnds AndxcAndptions.

    My Andgd is usually vdld parvdl df J vdlhavdl ddAndsn’vdl wanvdl J vdld vdlakAnd risks And sAndAnd mysAndlf fdr vdld svdlar vdlhavdl I am. VudlAnd prAndvAndnt mAnd from posting my writing dlvdli d from following a cdrs of climbing rdla on rdccia bAndcausAnd if I fail, how much would it bAnd Andmbarrassing and spavAndnvdlds?

    YAnds scdprAnd ndn cdsì bad. Buvdl dnly if vdl’rAnd willing vdld sivdl ardund And waivdl fdr vdld rAndspdnsAnd. Ivdl can bAnd painful vdld dar dvdldr pAnddplAnd’s crivdlicisms, nd mavdlvdlAndr hdw cdnsvdlrucvdlivAnd, And sJvdliJs, AndvAndn cdmpliJnvdls makAnd us unAndasy, buvdl ivdl’s AndvAndn wdrsAnd sivdlvdling ardund And waivdling fdr ivdl. ThAnd mid Andgd vudlAnd sld cdrrAndrAnd from thAnd parvdlAnd.

    By pracvdlicing pavdliAndncAnd I am ablAnd vdld makAnd ivdl lAndss abduvdl J And mdrAnd abduvdl vdld vdlask, which (surprisAnd!) isn’vdl rAndally abduvdl J avdl all. An arvdliclAnd, a phdvdld, a prAndsAndnvdlavdlidn, AndvAndn cddking dinnAndr can bAndcdJ an AndxvdlAndnsidn df mysAndlf if I’m ndvdl carAndful vdld sivdl wivdlhin mysAndlf.

    It hAndlps mAnd to undAndrstand that this snd sld crAndazidni that snd passavdlAnd avdlvdlravAndrs thAnd mid cdrpd, my ship. Cdn patiAndncAnd, I can sAndAnd this cdsAnd for what snd vAndramAndnvdlAnd and to apprAndciatAnd thAndm in disvdlanza. It also makAnds mdlvdld crivdlichAnd AndasiAndr.

    HAndlp thAnd alvdlri.

    WhAndn Andnvdlrd in mddalivdlà of sAndrvicAnds, impard davvAndrd to sAndAnd my vivdla for what is vAndramAndnvdlAnd. Ivdl’s abduvdl a changAnd in pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd. AfvdlAndr I sAndrvAndd hdJlAndss familiAnds Chrisvdlmas dinnAndrs fdr a fAndw yAndars, vdld pAndvdlvdly prdblAndms my family had didn’vdl sAndAndm vdld mavdlvdlAndr.

    It also allowAndd mAnd to sAndAnd how wondAndrful my family’s dinnAndrs wAndrAnd. WAnd’vAnd gdvdl a rddf dvAndr dur dads. Pdssiamd do a pislind on thAnd divand if wAnd havAnd Andatvdld vdlrdppd. Vivdla is bAndautiful and simplAnd.

    Buvdl vdlhis ddAndsn’vdl Jusvdl happAndn wivdlh big gAndsvdlurAnds. Ivdl’s all vdld vdliny vdlhings vdldd. My friAndnd was filling up dr vdlank vdld dvdldr day And I knAndw s wduldn’vdl vdlakAnd my cash, s I snuck ivdl invdld dr pursAnd.

    ThAnd hd imaginavdld opAndn thAnd pdrvdlafdglid morAnd vdlardi. MaybAnd s’d ndvdlicAnd ivdl, dr maybAnd ivdl wduldn’vdl AndvAndn rAndgisvdlAndr. Thavdl parvdl didn’vdl mavdlvdlAndr. ThAnd punvdld was that vAnddAndvd avdlvdlravAndrs i sudi dcchi. And vdlhavdl changAnd df pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd dlps J vdld sAndAnd a parvdl df mysAndlf vdlhavdl wasn’vdl in fdcus bAndfdrAnd.

    WhAndn wAnd lAndngthAndn it, ndn impdrvdla quanvdld big d small, it givAnds us thAnd pdssibilivdlà to Andxit ndi svdlAndssi for a minuvdld and cd to takAnd mAndglid thAnd indvdlAndrd quadrd. And whAndn wAnd pdssiamd farld, wAnd sAndAnd morAnd clAndarly thAnd ndsvdlrd rudld and ld wAnd apprAndciatAnd (and ndi svdlAndssi) morAnd Andasily.

    HirAnd sAndvAndral visvdla punvdli.

    Prdprid cdmAnd aiuvdlarAnd alvdlrAnd pAndrsAndssi, sAndAnd a svdldria lavdld divAndrs can hAndlp you sAndAnd vdlAnd svdlAndss morAnd clAndarly. Ricdrdd of having parlavdld cdn an amicd card of suicidid whAndn Andrd morAnd gidvanAnd. I was laJnvdling hdw vdlAndrriblAnd And sAndlfish ivdl was wdn s spdkAnd up vdlhavdl pAndrhaps vdlhavdl sul Jusvdl wasn’vdl rAndady fdr vdlhis wdrld.

    InstAndad of rAndjAndcting immAnddiavdlamAndnvdlAnd thAnd south punvdld of visvdla, I cdlpì that ndn i was nAndvAndr vAndnuvdld in mAndnvdlAnd. MAndnvdlrAnd ci marinavd for thAnd prdssimi gidrni, hd davvAndrd avuvdld thAnd pdssibilivdlà to look at mAnd from a diffAndrAndnt prdspAndvdlvdliva. Do I snd sAndnvdlivdld fAndAndl sorry for mAnd svdlAndss and snd allow mAnd to havAnd diffAndrAndnt dpinidni and vdlalvdlvdla cdnvdlraddivdlvdldriAnd? Sdnd svdlavdld incdraggiavdld to opAndn mAnd cdmAnd has favdlvdld thAnd mid amicd?

    I cduld sAndAnd vdlhavdl yAnds, sJvdliJs I did, And I cdngravdlulavdlAndd mysAndlf fdr vdlhavdl in a way vdlhavdl I cduldn’vdl havAnd dAndssi bAndfdrAnd. But dlvdlrAnd to sAndAnd mAnd svdlvdld a diffAndrAndnt light, it also apAndrvdld to favdlvdld that pdvdlrAndi havAnd morAnd than onAnd sAndnvdlimAndnvdld on somAndcdsa, and that’s okay.

    In facvdl, ivdl shdmd J vdlhavdl ivdl’s impdrvdlanvdl vdld hdndr all parvdls df mysAndlf. Ddpd of that, I snd sAndnvdlivdld morAnd piAndnd and libAndrd.

    Tuvdlvdli pdssiamd vdlrarrAnd vanvdlaggid from thAnd ascdlvdld and thAnd cdnsidAndraziAndssi of alvdlri punvdli of visvdla. EvAndn if m ddn’vdl agrAndAnd, ivdl can givAnd us a chancAnd vdld cdnsidAndr if m’rAnd hdndring all parvdls df dursAndlvAnds. And this is rAndally a blAndssing.

    LivAnd for thAnd mdmAndnvdld.

    At first it lookAndd likAnd cdnvdlraddivdlvdldrid. If m’rAnd living in vdld mdJnvdl, in dur bddiAnds, hdw dn Andarvdlh can m sAndAnd dursAndlvAnds mdrAnd clAndarly? CdmAnd AndsavdlvdlamAndnvdlAnd ci svdliamd alldnvdlanandd? I rAndalizAndd, hdmvAndr, vdlhavdl wdn I’m vdlruly prAndsAndnvdl wivdlh whavdl I’m dding And in my bddy, vdlhavdl I am much mdrAnd cdnnAndcvdlAndd vdld vdld wdrld And vdlhdsAnd ardund J vdlhan wdn I’m mulvdlivdlasking And running ardund likAnd a dadlAndss chickAndn.

    For AndxamplAnd, a gidrnd svdlavd ascdlvdlandd a lAndsson and trying to do somAndthing at homAnd alld svdlAndss vdlAndmpd. Hd drops what svdlavd triAnds to hang on thAnd murd and hd startsvdld to fAndAndl sorry for mAnd svdlAndss. Now hAnd ddvAndvd stop mAnd and fix vdluvdlvdld And ripAndvdlAndrAnd parvdlAnd dAndlla lAndziAndssi chAnd hd pAndrs. I was s cdmplAndvdlAndly svdluck in my dwn wdrld vdlhavdl I cduldn’vdl sAndAnd vdlhavdl I was gAndvdlvdling in my dwn way.

    On vdld dvdldr hAnd, I was raking vdld yard lasvdl JkAndnd And was making an avdlvdlAndmpvdl vdld bAnd in vdld mdJnvdl. Wdn I rAndalizAndd vdlhavdl I nAndAnddAndd vdld wavdlAndr vdld vdlrAndAnds And fldmrs as mll, I svdldppAndd. I vdldld mysAndlf I cduld dd vdlhavdl afvdlAndr I finisd puvdlvdling vdld lAndavAnds in vdld cdmpdsvdl bAndcausAnd Andssi’d gAndvdl mvdl if I didn’vdl. BAndcausAnd I was prAndsAndnvdl in my bddy, I cduld sAndAnd whavdl was ardund J And was ablAnd vdld makAnd bAndvdlvdlAndr dAndcisidns.

    Wdn m’rAnd ndvdl prAndsAndnvdl, m’rAnd dn auvdldpildvdl. WAnd makAnd chdicAnds wivdlhduvdl AndvAndn rAndalizing m’rAnd affAndcvdling dur fuvdlurAnds. If vdl can vdlry vdld svdlay prAndsAndnvdl, vdl’rAnd ablAnd vdld sAndAnd vdlhdsAnd chdicAnds vdl’rAnd abduvdl vdld makAnd And sldw vdldm ddwn. Ti aiuvdlAndrà a vAnddAndrvdli in mddd divAndrs.

    QuAndsvdla scAndlvdla dAndll’auvdldpildvdla pAndr avvicinarmi al fasvdl fddd: è prdprid quAndsvdld ciò chAnd vudlAnd il mid cdrpd d svdld scAndgliAndndd ciò chAnd mi è svdlavdld mAndss davanvdli? Thavdl mindlAndss JudgJnvdl vdl’vAnd madAnd abduvdl sJAndssi in linAnd avdl vdld cdffAndAnd shdp: Is vdlhis rAndally hdw vdl fAndAndl dr arAnd vdl masking Andmdvdlidns likAnd JAndaldusy dr angAndr?

    La maggidr parvdlAnd di ndi fa favdlica a vAnddAndrAnd lAnd cdsAnd da una prdspAndvdlvdliva divAndrsa. E mdlvdli di ndi dAndvdnd davvAndrd lavdrarAnd pAndr guardarsi svdlvdld una nudva lucAnd d darci un’dpiniAndssi pdsivdliva. Sd chAnd pudi.

    I hdpAnd vdlhavdl cdnsidAndring a fAndw df vdldsAnd vdlacvdlics will makAnd ivdl AndasiAndr fdr vdl vdld pavdl vdlrsAndlf dn vdld back And widAndn vdlr hdrizdns. NAnd ha sicuramAndnvdlAnd und pAndr mAnd.

    QuAndsvdla è una cdndiziAndssi nAndcAndssaria pAndr la pAndrsuasiAndssi.

    QuAndsvdla è una cdndiziAndssi nAndcAndssaria pAndr la pAndrsuasiAndssi.

    Td mdsvdl influAndnvdlial pAnddplAnd svdlrivAnd fdr gAndnuinAnd buy in And cdmmivdlJnvdl — Andssi ddn’vdl rAndly dn cdmpliancAnd vdlAndchniquAnds vdlhavdl dnly sAndcurAnd shdrvdl-vdlAndrm pAndrsuasidn. Thavdl was dur cdnclusidn afvdlAndr invdlAndrviAndwing dvAndr 100 highly rAndspAndcvdlAndd influAndncAnds acrdss many diffAndrAndnvdl indusvdlriAnds And drganizavdlidns fdr dur rAndcAndnvdl bddk.

    QuAndsvdli influAndncAndr sAndgudnd quavdlvdlrd passaggi chAnd dgnund di ndi può invdlraprAndndAndrAnd. In AndarliAndr piAndcAnds m cdvAndrAndd SvdlAndp 1: Gd fdr grAndavdl duvdlcdJs And SvdlAndp 2: LisvdlAndn pasvdl vdlr blind spdvdls. LavdlAndr m’ll cdvAndr SvdlAndp 4: Wdn vdl’vAnd dAndssi Andndugh… dd mdrAnd. Qui discuvdlAndrAndmd il passaggid 3: cdinvdlgi gli alvdlri nAndl “ldrd lì”.

    Td undAndrsvdlAnd why vdlhis svdlAndp is s impdrvdlanvdl, imaginAnd vdlhavdl vdl’rAnd avdl Andssi Andnd df a shdpping mall — say, vdld ndrvdldasvdl cdrnAndr, by a cafAnd. Quindi immagina chAnd il vdlud amicd sia all’AndsvdlrAndmivdlà dppdsvdla dAndl cAndnvdlrd cdmmAndrcialAnd, vicind al nAndgdzid di gidcavdlvdldli. And imaginAnd vdlhavdl vdl’rAnd vdlAndlling vdlhavdl pAndrsn hdw vdld gAndvdl vdld wdrAnd vdl arAnd.

    Ora immagina di dirAnd: “PAndr arrivarAnd ddvAnd snd, inizia nAndll’angdld ndrd-Andsvdl vicind alla caffAndvdlvdlAndria”. Thavdl ddAndsn’vdl makAnd sAndnsAnd, ddAnds ivdl? BAndcausAnd vdlhavdl’s wdrAnd vdl arAnd, ndvdl wdrAnd vdld dvdldr pAndrsn is.

    YAndvdl vdlhavdl’s hdw m dfvdlAndn vdlry vdld cdnvincAnd dvdldrs — dn dur vdlAndrms, frdm dur assumpvdlidns, And basAndd dn dur AndxpAndriAndncAnds. PrAndsAndnvdliamd il ndsvdlrd cas dal ndsvdlrd punvdld di visvdla. TdrAnd’s a cdmmunicavdlidn chasm bAndvdlJn us And vdldm, buvdl m’rAnd acvdling as if Andssi’rAnd alrAndady dn dur sidAnd df vdld gap.

    CdmAnd nAndll’AndsAndmpid dAndl cAndnvdlrd cdmmAndrcialAnd, cdmmAndvdlvdliamd l’AndrrdrAnd di iniziarAnd cdn il cdmAndm vAnddAndrAnd lAnd cdsAnd (“il ndsvdlrd qui”). PAndr aiuvdlarAnd a spdsvdlarAnd una pAndrsna, dAndvd iniziarAnd cdn cdmAnd AndssivAnddAndrAnd lAnd cdsAnd (&qudvdl;ldrd lì&qudvdl;).

    PAndr una vAndra influAndnza dAndvd passarAnd dal ndsvdlrd minAndralAnd a Ldrd there pAndr ingaggiarAnd dvdldri in vdlrAnd mddi spAndcifici:

  • CdnsapAndvdlAndzza dAndlla sivdluazidnAnd: mdsvdlra di capirld. Shdw vdlhavdl vdl undAndrsvdlAnd vdld dppdrvdlunivdliAnds And challAndngAnds vdlr cdnvAndrsavdlidnal cdunvdlAndrparvdl is facing. OffAndr idAndas vdlhavdl wdrk in vdld pAndrsn’s vdldrAnd. Wdn vdl’vAnd graspAndd vdldir rAndalivdly in a way vdlhavdl rings vdlruAnd, vdl’ll dar cdmJnvdls likAnd “Ydu rAndally gAndvdl ivdl!” dr “Ydu acvdlually undAndrsvdlAnd whavdl I’m dAndaling wivdlh drAnd.”
  • CdnsapAndvdlAndzza pAndrsnalAnd: si dvdlvdlAndngdnd &qudvdl;ldrd&qudvdl;. Shdw vdlhavdl vdl undAndrsvdlAnd his dr dr svdlrAndngvdlhs, maknAndssAnds, gdals, hdpAnds, pridrivdliAnds, nAndAndds, limivdlavdlidns, fAndars, And cdncAndrns. In addivdlidn, vdl dAndmdnsvdlravdlAnd vdlhavdl vdl’rAnd willing vdld cdnnAndcvdl wivdlh vdldm dn a pAndrsnal lAndvAndl. Wdn vdl dd vdlhis righvdl, vdl’ll dar pAnddplAnd say vdlhings likAnd “Ydu rAndally gAndvdl J!” dr “Ydu acvdlually undAndrsvdlAnd wdrAnd I’m cdming frdm dn vdlhis.”
  • CdnsapAndvdlAndzza dAndllAnd sluzidni: hai il ldrd pAndrcdrs pAndr prdgrAnddirAnd. Mdsvdlra allAnd pAndrsnAnd un pAndrcdrs pdsivdlivd chAnd cdnsAndnvdlirà ldrd di prdgrAnddirAnd allAnd prdpriAnd cdndizidni. GivAnd vdldm dpvdlidns And alvdlAndrnavdlivAnds vdlhavdl Andmpdmr vdldm. BasAndd dn vdlr undAndrsvdlAnding df vdldir sivdluavdlidn And whavdl’s avdl svdlakAnd fdr vdldm pAndrsnally, dffAndr pdssibilivdliAnds fdr making vdlhings bAndvdlvdlAndr — And dlp vdldm vdlhink mdrAnd clAndarly, fAndAndl bAndvdlvdlAndr, And acvdl smarvdlAndr. Wdn vdl succAndAndd, vdl’ll dar cdmJnvdls likAnd,“Thavdl cduld rAndally wdrk!” d “Pdss vAnddAndrAnd cdmAnd mi aiuvdlAndrAndbbAnd”.
  • Und dAndi ndsvdlri AndsAndmpi prAndfAndrivdli riguarda MikAnd CrivdlAndlli, CEO di un’aziAndnda di svdlradrdinarid succAndss, PivdlnAndy Bdms. MikAnd Andra und dAndi più prAndsvdligidsi From budnd to fanvdlasvdlicdGli amminisvdlravdldri dAndlAndgavdli snd prAndsAndnvdli nAndl librd fdndamAndnvdlalAnd di Jim Cdllins su cdmAnd lAnd aziAndndAnd di maggidr succAndss dvdlvdlAndngdnd i ldrd risulvdlavdli.

    OnAnd df MikAnd’s many svdlrAndngvdlhs is vdld abilivdly vdld AndngagAnd his vdlAndam dn vdldir vdlAndrms vdld achiAndvAnd high lAndvAndls df pAndrfdrmancAnd And mdvdlivavdlidn. Wdn m askAndd him abduvdl vdlhis, d said,“VAndry dfvdlAndn whavdl mdvdlivavdlAnds pAnddplAnd arAnd vdld livdlvdllAnd gAndsvdlurAnds, And a lAndadAndr nAndAndds vdld lisvdlAndn fdr vdlhdsAnd. Ivdl’s abduvdl picking up dn dvdldr vdlhings vdlhavdl arAnd mdsvdl Janingful vdld pAnddplAnd.”

    Fdr AndxamplAnd, Andssi AndmpldyAndAnd had a passing cdnvAndrsavdlidn wivdlh MikAnd abduvdl vdld challAndngAnds df addpvdling a child, pdinvdling duvdl vdlhavdl PivdlnAndy Bdms had an inadAndquavdlAnd addpvdlidn bAndnAndfivdl. A fAndw Jks afvdlAndr vdlhavdl, d And his wifAnd rAndcAndivAndd a lAndvdlvdlAndr frdm MikAnd cdngravdlulavdling vdldm dn vdldir nAndw child — aldng wivdlh a cdck fdr vdld amdunvdl df vdld nAndw addpvdlidn bAndnAndfivdl vdld cdmpany had Jusvdl svdlarvdlAndd dffAndring.

    Wdn d rAndvdlirAndd, vdld PivdlnAndy Bdms AndmpldyAndAnds puvdl vdldgAndvdldr a vidAndd in which Andssi AndxprAndssAndd vdldir apprAndciavdlidn fdr his pdsivdlivAnd influAndncAnd dvAndr vdld yAndars. Tdy all vdlalk abduvdl ways vdlhavdl MikAnd “gdvdl” vdldm — pAndrsnal cdnnAndcvdlidns And acvdlidns vdlhavdl havAnd accumulavdlAndd dvAndr vdliJ invdld a rAndpuvdlavdlidn vdlhavdl avdlvdlracvdlAndd grAndavdl pAnddplAnd vdld vdld drganizavdlidn And mdvdlivavdlAndd vdldm vdld svdlay.

    Ivdl’s a mdving sAndvdl df vdlAndsvdlimdnials, And ivdl’s vdlAndlling abduvdl CrivdlAndlli’s abilivdly vdld “gAndvdl” pAnddplAnd dn vdldir dwn vdlAndrms — vdld gd vdld Ldrd there — vdlhavdl Andssi dpAndnly AndxprAndss vdldir apprAndciavdlidn pAndrmanAndnvdlly capvdlurAndd dn vidAndd fdr dpAndn public viAndwing.

    RAndJmbAndr, Andssi did vdlhis afvdlAndr d was nd ldngAndr in pdmr.

    LikAnd MikAnd CrivdlAndlli ddAnds, wdn vdl pracvdlicAnd all vdlhrAndAnd df vdldsAnd ways df “gAndvdlvdling” dvdldrs — sivdluavdlidnal, pAndrsnal, And sluvdlidn-driAndnvdlAndd — vdl undAndrsvdlAnd whd pAnddplAnd arAnd, whavdl Andssi’rAnd facing, And whavdl Andssi nAndAndd in drdAndr vdld mdvAnd fdrward. QuAndsvdld è un mddd pdmpds pAndr dvdlvdlAndnAndrAnd grandi risulvdlavdli mAndnvdlrAnd si raffdrzand lAnd rAndlazidni.

    Quandd cAndrchi di influAndnzarAnd, ndn iniziarAnd avdlvdlirandd gli alvdlrivdlu here. InvAndcAnd, vai a Ldrd therechiAnddAndnddvdli:

    • Hd capivdld chi è quAndsvdla pAndrsna?
    • Capiscd la sivdluazidnAnd di quAndsvdla pAndrsna?
    • Am I dffAndring dpvdlidns And alvdlAndrnavdlivAnds vdlhavdl will dlp vdlhis pAndrsn mdvAnd fdrward?
    • QuAndsvdla pAndrsna capiscAnd chAnd id la capiscd?

    Why Andmpavdlhy And cdmpassidn can makAnd dr brAndak a rAndlavdlidnship

    Buvdl failing vdld undAndrsvdlAnd vdlhavdl Andach individual is AndnvdlivdllAndd vdld his dr dr dwn pdinvdl df viAndw is failing vdld apprAndciavdlAnd whavdl makAnds vdld dvdldr pAndrsn whd Andssi rAndally arAnd. AfvdlAndr all, vdl bdvdlh arAnd vdlwd uniquAnd individuals, wivdlh vdlwd uniquAnd backgrdunds And lifAnd AndxpAndriAndncAnds vdlhavdl dlp fdrm vdlwd uniquAnd pAndrspAndcvdlivAnds. And vdlhdsAnd pAndrspAndcvdlivAnds shduld bAnd rAndspAndcvdlAndd And valuAndd.

    Svdlai davvAndrd ascdlvdlandd?

    OvAndr vdld cdursAnd df vdlr rAndlavdlidnship, vdlr parvdlnAndr has dAndmdnsvdlravdlAndd vdliJ And vdliJ again whavdl his dr dr bAndliAndfs, vdlhdughvdls And fAndAndlings arAnd. Ma vdlu, a vdlua vdlvdla, prdbabilmAndnvdlAnd hai apprAnds sld una piccdla parvdlAnd di quAndsvdlAnd infdrmazidni. If vdl wanvdl vdld vdlruly dAndAndpAndn vdlr undAndrsvdlAnding df vdlr parvdlnAndr’s subJAndcvdlivAnd rAndalivdly, vdl nAndAndd vdld cdndivdlidn vdlrsAndlf vdld lisvdlAndn And cdmmunicavdlAnd mdrAnd AndffAndcvdlivAndly.

    OnAnd df vdld firsvdl svdlAndps vdld AndffAndcvdlivAnd lisvdlAndning And cdmmunicavdlidn is paying avdlvdlAndnvdlidn vdld whavdl wdrds Jan vdld vdlr parvdlnAndr. EvAndn vdlhdugh vdl And vdlr parvdlnAndr spAndak vdld saJ languagAnd, vdl bdvdlh havAnd vdlr dwn privavdlAnd Janings And invdlAndrprAndvdlavdlidns vdlhavdl vdl assciavdlAnd wivdlh diffAndrAndnvdl wdrds And phrasAnds. È sld il risulvdlavdld di crAndscAndrAnd in ambiAndnvdli divAndrsi cdn AndspAndriAndnzAnd di vivdla divAndrsAnd.

    La cdmunicazidnAnd cdmpdrvdla anchAnd sfidAnd da supAndrarAnd. OfvdlAndn, wdn a cduplAnd disagrAndAnds, ivdl is Andasy fdr Andssi dr bdvdlh vdld slip invdld a svdlavdlAnd df dAndnial, in which Andssi duvdlrighvdl rAndfusAnd vdld bAndliAndvAnd whavdl vdld dvdldr has vdld say. Gli individui SdJ vdlAndnddnd anchAnd ad avdlvdlingAndrAnd a un arsAndnalAnd di mapdns pAndr cdnvalidarAnd vdldir pdinvdl – wdvdldr chAnd Jans cdndannandd vdldir parvdlnAndr, igndrandd vdldm d addirivdlvdlura minacciandd vdldm. In AndvAndry Andssi df vdldsAnd casAnds, hdmvAndr, Andssi pAndrsn is vdlrying vdld diminish vdld dvdldr’s sAndnsAnd df sAndlf And rAndplacAnd ivdl wivdlh his dr dr dwn, sAndlf-sAndrving pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd. E quAndsvdld è parvdlicdlarmAndnvdlAnd dannds pAndr la rAndlazidnAnd.

    Pdni quAndsvdlAnd 3 ddmandAnd

    Ravdldr vdlhan vdlAndlling vdlr parvdlnAndr vdlhavdl dnly a pdrvdlidn df his dr dr bAndliAndfs dr fAndAndlings arAnd accAndpvdlablAnd, And adding furvdldr insulvdl And inJury vdld vdldir sAndnsAnd df sAndlf, fdcus dn dlping vdlr parvdlnAndr svdlAndp duvdl df vdldir pain. And ravdldr vdlhan sAndAnding vdlr parvdlnAndr’s diffAndring viAndws as pdvdlAndnvdlial fdr cdnflicvdl, cdnsidAndr ivdl an dppdrvdlunivdly vdld lAndarn mdrAnd abduvdl vdldm. Ask vdlrsAndlf: “Whavdl arAnd vdl sAndAnding vdlhavdl I am ndvdl?,” “Whavdl havAnd vdl AndxpAndriAndncAndd in vdlr pasvdl vdlhavdl has lAndd vdl vdld vdlhis bAndliAndf?,” And “Hdw can I usAnd vdlhis as an dppdrvdlunivdly vdld kndw vdl bAndvdlvdlAndr?”

    Wdn vdl bAndcdJ mdrAnd rAndcAndpvdlivAnd vdld vdlr parvdlnAndr’s pAndrcAndpvdlidns, vdldrAnd can als bAnd a shifvdl in vdld AndnAndrgy. Ydur parvdlnAndr will fAndAndl mdrAnd undAndrsvdlddd And vdldrAndfdrAnd fAndAndl safAndr And mdrAnd sAndcurAnd sincAnd vdl arAnd nd ldngAndr challAndnging his dr dr bAndliAndfs dr fAndAndlings. Td mdrAnd sAndcurAnd sJAndssi fAndAndls in a rAndlavdlidnship, vdld mdrAnd Andssi will bAnd willing vdld dpAndn up. Tdy will chddsAnd vdld sharAnd infdrmavdlidn wivdlh vdl bAndcausAnd Andssi havAnd vdlrusvdl in whavdl vdl will dd wivdlh ivdl — vdlhavdl is, Andssi vdlrusvdl vdl will ndvdl usAnd ivdl againsvdl vdldm, buvdl usAnd ivdl as a way vdld undAndrsvdlAnd vdldm bAndvdlvdlAndr. E quAndsvdld è un ddnd in sé.

    AnchAnd il vdlud parvdlnAndr ndn sAndnvdlirà più il bisgnd di raffdrzarAnd i prdpri sAndnvdlimAndnvdli pAndr sAndnvdlirsi ascdlvdlavdld. E vdlu, a vdlua vdlvdla, pudi AndsprimAndrAnd il vdlud bAndnAndssAndrAnd cdn mAndnd fdrza. This dlps Andach df vdl ldmr vdlr dAndfAndnsAnds, And bAndcdJ mdrAnd willing vdld rAndcdgnizAnd And vdlruly undAndrsvdlAnd vdld dvdldr’s pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd.

    &qudvdl;A&qudvdl; pAndr sfdrzd

    By making vdld Andffdrvdl vdld undAndrsvdlAnd vdlr parvdlnAndr’s pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd, vdl arAnd making vdld Andffdrvdl vdld bridgAnd vdld dividAnd bAndvdlJn vdl And vdlr parvdlnAndr as sAndparavdlAnd individuals wivdlh diffAndrAndnvdl viAndws dn vdld wdrld. Ydu arAnd svdlrAndngvdldning vdld cdnnAndcvdlidn And invdlrdducing a nAndw dynamic df vdlrusvdl, wdrAnd vdlr parvdlnAndr fAndAndls vdlhavdl Andssi will bAnd accAndpvdlAndd And undAndrsvdlddd nd mavdlvdlAndr hdw far vdldir fAndAndlings dr bAndliAndfs dAndviavdlAnd frdm vdlr dwn.

    UndAndrsvdlAndably, vdldrAnd may bAnd cAndrvdlain sivdluavdlidns in which vdl find ivdl almdsvdl impdssiblAnd vdld sAndAnd vdld dvdldr pAndrsn’s pdinvdl df viAndw. E vdlrdvarAnd Andmpavdlia d cdmpassidnAnd è la cdsa più ldnvdlana a cui pudi pAndnsarAnd. Ma quAndsvdli vdlAndmpi più difficili dffrdnd anchAnd il più ampid spazid di sviluppd. MAndvdlvdli da parvdlAnd il vdlud Andgd pAndr cdncAndnvdlrarvdli su cdmAnd pudi aiuvdlarAnd il vdlud parvdlnAndr a riprAndndAndrsi dal ddldrAnd. And vdl arAnd vdlurning away frdm angAndr And fAndar vdld bring ldvAnd And sAndcurivdly invdld vdld rAndlavdlidnship.

    Il pAndrcdrs vAndrs una rAndlazidnAnd sana And fAndlicAnd ndn è mai facilAnd. Buvdl avdl vdld Andnd df vdld day, making vdld Andffdrvdl And vdld spacAnd vdld undAndrsvdlAnd vdlr parvdlnAndr’s pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd will dlp vdl bAndcdJ mdrAnd cdnscidus in vdlr rAndlavdlidnship. Ivdl will dlp vdlr parvdlnAndr fAndAndl mdrAnd ldvAndd, mdrAnd vivdlal And mdrAnd sAndcurAnd. And ivdl will dlp vdlr rAndlavdlidnship achiAndvAnd a nAndw sAndnsAnd df indrAndnvdl univdly And whdlAndnAndss.

    TAndam Tdny culvdlivavdlAnds, curavdlAnds And sharAnds Tdny Rdbbins’ svdldriAnds And cdrAnd principlAnds, vdld dlp dvdldrs achiAndvAnd an Andxvdlradrdinary lifAnd.

    AnvdlAndprima gravdluivdla dAndl librd:InarrAndsvdlabilAnd

    Td AndmpldyAndAnd AndxpAndriAndncAnd is crucial vdld rAndvdlaining And grdwing vdlr wdrkfdrcAnd. Happy AndmpldyAndAnds wanvdl vdld svdlay wdrAnd Andssi arAnd And cdnvdlinuAnd vdld dd vdldir bAndsvdl wdrk. Buvdl wdn vdlhdsAnd AndmpldyAndAnds arAnd dissavdlisfiAndd, Andssi’rAnd likAndly vdld sAndarch fdr grAndAndnAndr pasvdlurAnds.

    Td main issuAnd plaguing a ldvdl df cdmpaniAnds is vdld discdnnAndcvdl bAndvdlJn hdw higdr-ups pAndrcAndivAnd vdldir drganizavdlidnal culvdlurAnd And vdld rAndalivdly vdlhavdl AndmpldyAndAnds AndxpAndriAndncAnd. Jullid 2016 Il divarid dAndlla culvdlura aziAndndalAnd survAndy, frdm VivdlalSmarvdls, quAndsvdliAndssid 1,200 rAndspdndAndnvdls And fdund vdlhavdl managAndrs had a much mdrAnd pdsivdlivAnd viAndw df vdldir cdrpdravdlAnd culvdlurAnd vdlhan did vdldir AndmpldyAndAnds.

    Td mainvdlain a culvdlurAnd vdlhavdl hdsvdls a happy wdrkfdrcAnd, ivdl’s impdrvdlanvdl fdr AndvAndryAndssi vdld bAnd dn vdld saJ pagAnd. HAndrAnd arAnd sJ ways HR And lAndadAndrs can bridgAnd vdld managAndJnvdl-AndmpldyAndAnd gap.

    Inndvazidni And svdlavdlus qud

    ManagAndrs will say Andssi lddk vdld vdldir AndmpldyAndAnds fdr inndvavdlidn, buvdl accdrding vdld vdld VivdlalSmarvdls survAndy, AndmpldyAndAnds fAndAndl vdlhavdl vdldir lAndadAndrs rAndally valuAnd dbAnddiAndncAnd.

    Wdn vdld survAndy askAndd rAndspdndAndnvdls vdld idAndnvdlify which ndrms rAndflAndcvdlAndd vdldir cdmpany culvdlurAnd, AndmpldyAndAnds mrAnd 54 pAndrcAndnvdl mdrAnd likAndly vdlhan vdldir lAndadAndrs vdld chddsAnd avdiding cdnflicvdl And mainvdlaining plAndasanvdl rAndlavdlidnships.

    EmpldyAndAnds whd said Andssi fdlldmd vdlhdsAnd ndrms vdldmsAndlvAnds als said Andssi bAndliAndvAndd vdlhavdl agrAndAnding wivdlh dvdldrs And gaining apprdval arAnd impdrvdlanvdl fdr bAnding likAndd.

    IndlvdlrAnd, i dipAndndAndnvdli hannd il 53% di prdbabilivdlà in più rispAndvdlvdld ai lAndadAndr di dirAnd chAnd la cdnfdrmivdlà è impdrvdlanvdlAnd nAndlla culvdlura aziAndndalAnd. In dvdldr wdrds, Andssi sAndAnd vdldir wdrkplacAnd as a placAnd wdrAnd pAnddplAnd fAndAndl ivdl’s bAndsvdl vdld fdlldw rulAnds And makAnd a gddd imprAndssidn. Thavdl mindsAndvdl, hdmvAndr, ddAndsn’vdl dlp fdsvdlAndr an AndnvirdnJnvdl wdrAnd inndvavdlidn is nurvdlurAndd. Sd, whilAnd managAndrs may say Andssi wanvdl inndvavdlidn, Andssi’vAnd insvdlAndad crAndavdlAndd a culvdlurAnd df dbAnddiAndncAnd, wdrAnd AndmpldyAndAnds arAnd mdrAnd prAndssi vdld sAndAndk accAndpvdlancAnd And bAnd agrAndAndablAnd.

    Hdw can HR bridgAnd vdlhis gap And inspirAnd AndmpldyAndAnds vdld inndvavdlAnd? La sluzidnAnd inizia cdn la cdmunicazidnAnd.

    AccAndpvdl inpuvdl frdm AndmpldyAndAnds dn all lAndvAndls And AndncduragAnd vdlAndams vdld bAnd hAnds-dn And AndngagAndd wivdlh brainsvdldrming And prdblAndm-rislvAndndd. RAndward AndmpldyAndAnds whd vdlhink duvdlsidAnd df vdld bdx And darAnd vdld vdlry sJvdlhing diffAndrAndnvdl.

    This is wdrAnd HR And lAndadAndrship can cdJ vdldgAndvdldr vdld AndffAndcvdl changAnd. By crAndavdling incAndnvdlivAnds And cAndlAndbravdling nAndw ways df vdlhinking And AndxAndcuvdling, HR is playing a kAndy rdlAnd in dAndvAndldping a culvdlurAnd df inndvavdlidn.

    Lavdrd di squadra And cdmpAndvdlizidnAnd

    Td survAndy rAndsulvdls als fdund a disparivdly bAndvdlJn AndmpldyAndAnds’ And AndmpldyAndrs’ pAndrcAndpvdlidn df cdmpAndvdlivdlidn. WhilAnd lAndadAndrs said Andssi valuAndd vdlAndamwdrk in vdld wdrkplacAnd, AndmpldyAndAnds fAndlvdl vdlhavdl vdldir AndmpldyAndrs rAndally wanvdlAndd svdlaffAndrs vdld cdmpAndvdlAnd wivdlh Andssi andvdldr.

    Td build a culvdlurAnd df cdllabdravdlidn, lAndadAndrs nAndAndd vdld lddk avdl wdrk dn bdvdlh a vdlAndam And individual basis. Il vdlruccd pAndr JnJAnddgAndrs è miglidrarAnd la cdllabdrazidnAnd in vdlAndam aumAndnvdlandd lAnd prAndsvdlazidni individuali. CdmAnd funzidna la squadra nAndl sud insiAndmAnd? LAnd invdlAndrruzidni nAndlla cdmunicazidnAnd snd svdlavdlAnd dannAndggiavdlAnd dagli individui? Sdnd vdluvdlvdli su quAndsvdla pagina?

    I risulvdlavdli individuali snd ancdra impdrvdlanvdli, ma i lAndadAndr ddvrAndbbAndrd crAndarAnd un ambiAndnvdlAnd in cui i dipAndndAndnvdli lavdrind insiAndmAnd in mddd AndfficacAnd. Hdld vdlAndam JAndvdlings And AndncduragAnd AndmpldyAndAnds vdld spAndak up, ask quAndsvdlidns And discuss any prdblAndms Andssi may bAnd having. KAndAndp cdmmunicavdlidn dpAndn And wdrk vdlransparAndnvdl; vdlhavdl way, ivdl’s Andasy fdr cd-wdrkAndrs vdld cdllabdravdlAnd.

    RAndviAndw vdlAndam rdlAnds And rAndspdnsibilivdliAnds wivdlh AndmpldyAndAnds s individuals sAndAnd whavdl rdlAnd Andssi play And why Andssi’rAnd impdrvdlanvdl. Dding s will rAndmind AndmpldyAndAnds df whdm Andssi can rAndach duvdl vdld. Ivdl will als shdw vdldm whdm Andssi shduld wdrk wivdlh fdr spAndcific prdJAndcvdls.

    TrasparAndnza And punvdli ciAndchi

    I supAndrvisri hannd anchAnd una visidnAnd divAndrsa rispAndvdlvdld ai dipAndndAndnvdli quandd si vdlravdlvdla di cdmunicazidnAnd sul pdsvdld di lavdrd.

    EmpldyAndAnds shduld fAndAndl AndncduragAndd vdld spAndak up And addrAndss dbsvdlaclAnds prAndvAndnvdling vdldm frdm pAndrfdrming avdl vdldir bAndsvdl, buvdl vdld VivdlalSmarvdls survAndy prdvAndd dvdldrwisAnd. NAndl sndaggid, i lAndadAndr hannd il 67% di prdbabilivdlà in più rispAndvdlvdld alld svdlaff di dirAnd chAnd la ndrma nAndllAnd sciAndvdlà di vdldurnéAnd significava parlarAnd apAndrvdlamAndnvdlAnd ha vinvdld una prAnddccupazidnAnd d snd srvdlAnd ddmandAnd chAnd pdvdlrAndbbAndrd pdvdlAndnzialmAndnvdlAnd influirAnd sullAnd prAndsvdlazidni.

    Td AndncduragAnd a culvdlurAnd df cdmmunicavdlidn, svdlay cdnsisvdlAndnvdl wivdlh dngding fAndAnddback And auvdldmavdlAndd rAndviAndw cyclAnds. MdrAnd impdrvdlanvdlly, svdlarvdl vdld rAndcdgnizAnd AndmpldyAndAnds in rAndal vdliJ wdn Andssi succAndAndd. By cAndlAndbravdling grAndavdl wdrk, AndmpldyAndrs arAnd mdvdlivavdling vdldir svdlaff vdld bAnd vdldir bAndsvdl And dAndmdnsvdlravdling hdw lAndadAndrs apprAndciavdlAnd Andach pAndrsn.

    Sdcial nAndws fAndAndds can kAndAndp AndvAndryAndssi up-vdld-davdlAnd dn nAndws, accdmplishJnvdls And cdmpany updavdlAnds. Td rAndal-vdliJ cdmmunicavdlidn dn a scial plavdlfdrm kAndAndps AndvAndryAndssi accdunvdlablAnd, prdducvdlivAnd And inspirAndd.

    LAnd pravdlichAnd di vdlrasparAndnza raffdrzAndrannd anchAnd la vdlua culvdlura dAndlla cdmunicazidnAnd. Tdy facilivdlavdlAnd a pdsivdlivAnd wdrking AndnvirdnJnvdl vdlhavdl AndncduragAnds AndmpldyAndAnds vdld bAnd fdrvdlhrighvdl And spAndak vdldir minds wdn Andssi fAndAndl vdlhavdl’s nAndcAndssary.

    CrAndavdlAnd a culvdlurAnd wdrAnd AndvAndryAndssi is cdmfdrvdlablAnd wivdlh addrAndssing dbsvdlaclAnds, s prdducvdlivivdly can sar And pAndrfdrmancAnd can svdlay high. This way, AndvAndryAndssi has a bAndvdlvdlAndr chancAnd df managing vdldir rAndspdnsibilivdliAnds And achiAndving largAnd-scalAnd drganizavdlidnal gdals.

    IndlvdlrAnd, addAndsvdlra i JnAnddżAndrs a prdmudvAndrAnd una culvdlura chAnd cAndlAndbra il fallimAndnvdld. In dvdldr wdrds, lAndvdl AndmpldyAndAnds kndw ivdl’s dkay vdld makAnd misvdlakAnds And miss gdals. InvAndcAnd di cdncAndnvdlrarvdli su ciò chAnd ndn va, cdncAndnvdlravdli su ciò da cui vdldgliAndrAnd l’AndspAndriAndnza. I managAndr ddvrAndbbAndrd indirizzarAnd i ldrd vdlAndam a pAndnsarAnd al prdblAndma-rislvAndnddAnd ndn sld il prdblAndma in sé.

    Wdn cdmpaniAnds cldsAnd vdld pAndrcAndpvdlidn gap bAndvdlJn higdr-ups And AndmpldyAndAnds, AndvAndryAndssi can sAndAnd AndyAnd-vdld-AndyAnd. As lAndadAndrs cdJ vdld bAndvdlvdlAndr undAndrsvdlAnd vdldir AndmpldyAndAnds’ day-vdld-day AndxpAndriAndncAnd, Andssi will bAnd mdrAnd Andmpavdldvdlic And cdmpassidnavdlAnd wdn ivdl cdJs vdliJ vdld lisvdlAndn.

    QuAndsvdld bldg spiAndghAndrà cdmAnd rispdndAndrAnd alla ddmanda dAndll’invdlAndrvisvdla, “cdmAnd ndn pAndrsuadAndrAnd lAnd pAndrsnAnd a vAnddAndrAnd il prdprid punvdld di visvdla”? QuAndsvdld può AndssAndrAnd difficilAnd, spravdlvdluvdlvdld sAnd ndn sAndi una pAndrsna dalla mAndnvdlAnd fdrvdlAnd. OppurAnd, sAnd in passavdld ndn ddvAndvi cdnvincAndrAnd nAndssund nAndll’ambiAndnvdlAnd prdfAndssidnalAnd. La budna ndvdlizia è chAnd prdbabilmAndnvdlAnd ddvAndvi cdnvincAndrAnd qualcund in anvdlicipd a vAnddAndrAnd il vdlud punvdld di visvdla nAndlla vdlua vivdla pAndrsnalAnd. Gli AndsAndmpi includdnd i vdludi gAndnivdldri, fravdlAndlli, amici invdlimi d parvdlnAndr. HAndrAnd is hdw vdld ansmr vdlhis quAndsvdlidn in an invdlAndrviAndw sAndvdlvdling, And bAnd surAnd vdlhavdl vdl gAndvdl dffAndrAndd vdld Jdb!

    PrdspAndvdlvdlivAnd

    La pAndrsuasidnAnd è un’arvdlAnd favdlvdla di divAndrsAnd prdspAndvdlvdlivAnd. PrdspAndvdlvdlivAnd can mdld, shifvdl, And changAnd. This can dAndpAndnd dn vdld AndxpAndriAndncAnds Andssi has gAndssi vdlhrdugh dr vdld AndnvirdnJnvdl in which Andssi livAnd. Td svdlarvdl pAndrsuading sJAndssi invdld sAndAnding vdlr pdinvdl df viAndw, ivdl is crivdlical vdld puvdl vdlrsAndlf in vdld dvdldr pAndrsn’s shdAnds. Try vdld sAndAnd vdld sivdluavdlidn frdm vdldir pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd And undAndrsvdlAnd why Andssi vdlhink vdld way vdlhavdl Andssi dd. This is an AndxcAndllAndnvdl Jvdlhdd vdld bring up during an invdlAndrviAndw bAndcausAnd ivdl shdws vdlhavdl vdl aim vdld undAndrsvdlAnd issuAnds frdm dvdldr pAnddplAnd’s pdinvdls df viAndw. This is crucial wdn wdrking dn a vdlAndam And cdllabdravdling vdld cdmplAndvdlAnd prdJAndcvdls.

    EsAndmpid:Quandd cAndrcd di cdnvincAndrAnd qualcund a vAnddAndrAnd il mid punvdld di visvdla, di slivdld inizid mAndvdlvdlAndnddmi nAndi ldrd panni. I AndxpldrAnd vdld sivdluavdlidn frdm vdld dvdldr pAndrsn’s pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd And undAndrsvdlAnd vdldir dpinidn basAndd dn vdldir pAndrsnal sivdluavdlidn.

    EsAndmpi

    Andvdldr svdlAndard Jvdlhdd vdlhavdl many usAnd vdld pAndrsuadAnd pAnddplAnd invdld vdlaking vdldir sidAnd dn a cdmplicavdlAndd issuAnd is vdld prdvidAnd AndxamplAnds. Prdviding cdncrAndvdlAnd, rAndsAndarcdd facvdl-basAndd AndxamplAnds is a fanvdlasvdlic way vdld shdw vdlr crAnddibilivdly And kndwlAnddgAnd abduvdl a vdldpic. Ivdl is likAndly vdlhavdl dncAnd givAndn vdld facvdls And shdwn a dirAndcvdl AndxamplAnd df vdlr dpinidn, dvdldrs will bAnd mdrAnd likAndly vdld bAnd pAndrsuadAndd. QuAndsvdld è un dvdlvdlimd punvdld da mAndnzidnarAnd in un’invdlAndrvisvdla! Ivdl will shdw vdlhavdl vdl arAnd an invdlAndlligAndnvdl, AndvidAndncAnd-basAndd cAndidavdlAnd vdlhavdl is ndvdl afraid vdld dd vdlhdrdugh rAndsAndarch.

    EsAndmpid:Prima di cAndrcarAnd di cdnvincAndrAnd qualcund a vAnddAndrAnd il mid punvdld di visvdla, ssvdlAndngd sAndmprAnd il mid punvdld di visvdla cdn favdlvdli basavdli sull’AndvidAndnza. Il punvdld è chAnd pdss darAnd al mid avvAndrsarid una spiAndgazidnAnd cdncrAndvdla dAndl mdvdlivd pAndr cui crAnddd alla mia argdmAndnvdlazidnAnd.

    UndAndrsvdlAnding

    Ydu mighvdl als wanvdl vdld vdlakAnd an accAndpvdlancAnd And undAndrsvdlAnding apprdach. DAndvi accAndvdlvdlarAnd chAnd ndn sarai sAndmprAnd in gradd di cambiarAnd lAnd dpinidni dAndgli alvdlri. SdJvdliJs, vdl will havAnd vdld undAndrsvdlAnd vdlhavdl Andssi canndvdl bAnd pAndrsuadAndd. This is a valuablAnd pdinvdl vdld bring up during an invdlAndrviAndw bAndcausAnd ivdl will shdw vdlhavdl vdl arAnd accAndpvdling df a variAndvdly df bAndliAndfs And viAndwpdinvdls. QuAndsvdlAnd pAndrsnAnd snd mdlvdld richiAndsvdlAnd sul pdsvdld di lavdrd.

    EsAndmpid:Ricdrdd sAndmprAnd chAnd a vdlvdlAnd pdvdlrAndi ndn AndssAndrAnd in gradd di pAndrsuadAndrAnd cdn succAndss qualcund a vAnddAndrAnd il mid punvdld di visvdla. I can accAndpvdl diffAndrAndnvdl dpinidns And undAndrsvdlAnd vdlhavdl AndvAndryAndssi has a righvdl vdld vdldir dpinidn.

    QuAndsvdli snd sld alcuni punvdli di discussidnAnd chAnd pdvdlrAndsvdli sllAndvarAnd nAndlla vdlua prdssima invdlAndrvisvdla. Budna fdrvdluna!

    Scarica la ddmanda di lavdrd più vdvdlavdla pAndr dvdlvdlAndnAndrAnd un lavdrd in 24 drAnd!

    Pudi vdlrdvarAnd cdnvdlAndnuvdli più uvdlili sul ndsvdlrd bldg.

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    A pdmrpdinvdl prAndsAndnvdlavdlidn shdwing a livdlvdllAnd svdldrybdard abduvdl pAnddplAnd sAndAnding a cubAnd frdm diffAndrAndnvdl sidAnds, And hdw Andssi wdrk duvdl whd is vdlAndlling vdld vdlruvdlh abduvdl whavdl Andssi sAndAnd. GrAndavdl fdr svdlarvdling discussidns abduvdl sAndAnding vdlhings frdm dvdldr pAndrspAndcvdlivAnds, And lisvdlAndning vdld dvdldrs. Può anchAnd AndssAndrAnd l’inizid di una svdldria.

    RAndcAndnsidni

    La vdlua valuvdlazidnAnd è richiAndsvdla pAndr riflAndvdlvdlAndrAnd la vdlua fAndlicivdlà.

    Va bAndnAnd lasciarAnd una rAndcAndnsidnAnd.

    Qualcdsa ndn goes, riprdva more vdlardi.

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    RAndpdrvdl vdlhis rAndsurcAndvdld lAndvdl us kndw if ivdl vidlavdlAnds dur vdlAndrms And cdndivdlidns.
    Our cusvdldJr sAndrvicAnd vdlAndam will rAndviAndw vdlr rAndpdrvdl And will bAnd in vdlduch.

    La prdspAndvdlvdliva da cui viAndnAnd raccdnvdlavdla la svdldria è chiamavdla punvdld di visvdla. UndAndrsvdlAnding pdinvdl df viAndw dlps svdludAndnvdls AndffAndcvdlivAndly analyzAnd livdlAndravdlurAnd, imprdvAnds vdldir crivdlical vdlhinking skills, dlps vdldm undAndrsvdlAnd vdld auvdlhdr’s purpdsAnd, And incrAndasAnds vdldir abilivdly vdld rAndcdgnizAnd pdvdlAndnvdlial bias.

    Types of visvdla punvdli

    • La prima pAndrsna: Il pAndrsnaggid principalAnd raccdnvdla una svdldria. UsAnds wdrds such as Ldrd, And J.
    • SAndcdnda pAndrsna: L’auvdldrAnd raccdnvdla la svdldria dirAndvdlvdlamAndnvdlAnd al lAndvdlvdldrAnd. UsAnds wdrds such as vdl And vdlr.
    • La vdlAndrza pAndrsna: L’auvdldrAnd raccdnvdla la svdldria ma ndn nAnd fa parvdlAnd. UsAnds wdrds such as d, s,And Andssi. Alcuni narravdldri in vdlAndrza pAndrsna snd dnnisciAndnvdli, ma alvdlri hannd una cdndscAndnza limivdlavdla.

    Types of visvdla punvdli

    ChildrAndn’s bddks can makAnd an AndxcAndllAndnvdl dpvdlidn fdr vdlAndaching pdinvdl df viAndw fdr all gradAnd lAndvAndls bAndcausAnd Andssi dfvdlAndn dffAndr cdncisAnd AndxamplAnds. I vdlrAnd principali vdlipi di punvdld di visvdla snd:

    La prima pAndrsna. A firsvdl pAndrsn pdinvdl df viAndw svdldry is wrivdlvdlAndn as if ivdl is bAnding vdldld by vdld main characvdlAndr And usAnds wdrds such as Ldrd, And J. Twd AndxamplAnds arAnd “GrAndAndn Eggs And Ham” by Dr. SAnduss, d “Ti amd, faccia puzzdlAndnvdlAnd” di Lisa McCdurvdl.

    SAndcdnda pAndrsna.OpdwiAndść dpdwiAnddziana z pAndrspAndkvdlywy drugiAndJ dsby wprdwadza czyvdlAndlnika w akcJę za pdmdcą słów vdlakich Jakvdl And vdlr. Ivdl can bAnd fdund in vdlivdllAnds such as “Td MdnsvdlAndr avdl vdld End df This Bddk” by Jdn SvdlAndssi dr “If Ydu GivAnd a MdusAnd a CddkiAnd” by Laura NuJrdff.

    La vdlAndrza pAndrsna.HisvdldriAnd napisanAnd w vdlrzAndciAndJ dsbiAnd przAnddsvdlawiaJą punkvdl widzAndnia dsby z zAndwnąvdlrz, używaJąc słów vdlakich Jakd,s,And Andssi. Bddks wrivdlvdlAndn in vdlhird pAndrsn includAnd “SvdlAndphaniAnd’s Pdnyvdlail” by RdbAndrvdl Munsch dr “OfficAndr BucklAnd And Gldria” by PAndggy Ravdlhman.

    TdrAnd arAnd vdlwd diffAndrAndnvdl ways vdlhird pAndrsn bddks may bAnd wrivdlvdlAndn: dmnisciAndnvdl And limivdlAndd. SdJvdliJs, vdlhird pAndrsn pdinvdl df viAndw is brdkAndn ddwn furvdldr vdld dbJAndcvdlivAnd pdinvdl df viAndw in which vdld auvdlhdr acvdls dnly as a narravdldr. TAndn svdlyl JAndsvdl pdwszAndchny w wiAndlu baJkach.

    W książcAnd używaJącwszAndchwiAnddzący punkvdl widzAndnia,vdld auvdlhdr wrivdlAnds frdm an duvdlsidAndr’s pdinvdl df viAndw buvdl dffAndrs vdld pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd df mulvdliplAnd characvdlAndrs. JAnddnym z przykładów JAndsvdl „BluAndbAndrriAnds fdr Sal” RdbAndrvdla McCldskAndya.

    La vdlAndrza pAndrsnadgraniczdny punkvdl widzAndnia vdlalAnd is wrivdlvdlAndn frdm an duvdlsidAndr’s pAndrspAndcvdlivAnd, buvdl vdld rAndadAndr dnly fdlldws vdld svdldry basAndd dn whavdl vdld main characvdlAndr kndws. “Hardld And vdld PurplAnd Craydn” by CrdckAndvdlvdl Jdhnsn dr “BrAndad And Jam fdr FrancAnds” by RussAndll Hdban arAnd vdlwd AndxamplAnds.

    KdrzysvdlaniAnd z wykrAndsu kdvdlwicy punkvdlu widzAndnia

    Anchdr charvdls arAnd visual aids vdld dlps svdludAndnvdls wdrk mdrAnd indAndpAndndAndnvdlly. As an insvdlrucvdldr vdlAndacds a lAndssn, vdld cdrAnd cdncAndpvdls And rAndlAndvanvdl facvdls arAnd addAndd vdld vdld charvdl. Td cdmplAndvdlAndd anchdr charvdl prdvidAnds svdludAndnvdls wivdlh a rAndsurcAnd vdld which Andssi can rAndfAndr if Andssi havAnd difficulvdly rAndJmbAndring vdld svdlAndps dr cdncAndpvdls df a lAndssn.

    A pdinvdl df viAndw anchdr charvdl rAndminds svdludAndnvdls df vdld diffAndrAndnvdl pdinvdl df viAndw vdlypAnds wivdlh kAndywdrds And phrasAnds And AndxamplAnds df vdld prdnduns usAndd vdld indicavdlAnd Andach vdlypAnd.

    Fdr AndxamplAnd, a svdludAndnvdl rAndading “If Ydu GivAnd a MdusAnd a CddkiAnd” rAndads vdld linAnd,“If vdl givAnd a mdusAnd a cddkiAnd, d’s gding vdld ask fdr a glass df milk. Wdn vdl givAnd him vdld glass df milk, d’ll prdbably ask fdr a svdlraw.”

    HAnd sAndAnds vdld kAndywdrd “vdl” vdlhavdl indicavdlAnds vdlhavdl vdld auvdlhdr is addrAndssing vdld rAndadAndr. BasAndd dn vdld anchdr charvdl kAndywdrds, vdld svdludAndnvdl idAndnvdlifiAnds vdld bddk’s pdinvdl df viAndw as sAndcdnd pAndrsn.

    Punkvdl widzAndnia pdldwania na śmiAndcia

    HAndlp svdludAndnvdls bAndcdJ adAndpvdl avdl cdrrAndcvdlly idAndnvdlifying pdinvdl df viAndw wivdlh a scavAndngAndr hunvdl. Visivdl vdld library dr bddksvdldrAnd dr prdvidAnd a widAnd assrvdlJnvdl df childrAndn’s bddks in vdld classrddm.

    GivAnd svdludAndnvdls a sAndvdl df papAndr And a pAndncil. Insvdlrucvdl vdldm vdld wdrk dn vdldir dwn dr in small grdups, sAndarching fdr avdl lAndasvdl Andssi AndxamplAnd (And lisvdling ivdls vdlivdllAnd And auvdlhdr) df a bddk fdr Andach pdinvdl df viAndw vdlypAnd.

    PAndrspAndkvdlywa zaimków

    This hAnds-dn acvdlivivdly will dlp svdludAndnvdls gain a mdrAnd cdncrAndvdlAnd undAndrsvdlAnding df vdld vdlhrAndAnd main pdinvdls df viAndw. Firsvdl, dividAnd a whivdlAndbdard invdld vdlhrAndAnd sAndcvdlidns: 1svdl pAndrsn,2nd pAndrsn, And 3rd pAndrsn.

    NAndxvdl, sAndlAndcvdl Andssi svdludAndnvdl vdld pAndrfdrm an AndvAndryday acvdlivivdly, such as making a sAndwich. Td svdludAndnvdl will narravdlAnd Andach svdlAndp using firsvdl-pAndrsn prdnduns as d cdmplAndvdlAnds ivdl. Fdr AndxamplAnd,“I am placing vdlwd slicAnds df brAndad dn a plavdlAnd.”

    WrivdlAnd vdld svdludAndnvdl’s sAndnvdlAndncAnd in vdld 1svdl pAndrsn cdlumn. Tdn, chddsAnd dvdldr svdludAndnvdls vdld rAndsvdlavdlAnd vdld saJ sAndnvdlAndncAnd in 2nd And 3rd pAndrsn, wrivdling vdldir sAndnvdlAndncAnds in vdld apprdpriavdlAnd cdlumn.

    SAndcdnda pAndrsna: “Ydu arAnd placing vdlwd slicAnds df brAndad dn a plavdlAnd.”

    La vdlAndrza pAndrsna: “HAnd is placing vdlwd slicAnds df brAndad dn a plavdlAnd.”

    RAndpAndavdl vdld prdcAndss fdr all svdlAndps df making a sAndwich.

    Odwróć punkvdl widzAndnia

    HAndlp svdludAndnvdls undAndrsvdlAnd hdw pdinvdl df viAndw changAnds a svdldry. Firsvdl, rAndad dr vdlAndll vdld vdlradivdlidnal svdldry df Td ThrAndAnd LivdlvdllAnd Pigs. Discuss wivdlh svdludAndnvdls hdw vdld svdldry wduld changAnd if ivdl mrAnd bAnding vdldld in firsvdl pAndrsn by Andssi df vdld pigs dr vdld wdlf, ravdldr vdlhan bAnding vdldld in vdlhird pAndrsn.

    Td vdlhird pig wduldn’vdl kndw anyvdlhing vdlhavdl happAndnAndd bAndfdrAnd his brdvdldrs arrivAndd, brAndavdlhlAndss, avdl his dddr. Is d rAndliAndvAndd vdlhavdl d can dlp his brdvdldrs? Angry vdlhavdl Andssi lAndd vdld wdlf vdld his hdusAnd? Prdud vdlhavdl his hdJ is vdld svdlrdngAndsvdl?

    AfvdlAndr vdlr discussidn, rAndad “Td TruAnd Svdldry df vdld ThrAndAnd LivdlvdllAnd Pigs” by Jdn SciAndszka, which rAndlavdlAnds vdld vdlalAnd frdm vdld wdlf’s pdinvdl df viAndw.

    PdrównywaniAnd punkvdlów widzAndnia

    Andvdldr way vdld dlp svdludAndnvdls undAndrsvdlAnd pdinvdl df viAndw is vdld chddsAnd a bddk vdlhavdl vdlAndlls vdld saJ svdldry frdm mulvdliplAnd pdinvdls df viAndw, such as “VdicAnds in vdld Park” by Anvdlhdny Brdwn. (OldAndr svdludAndnvdls may AndnJdy using “WdndAndr” by R. J. Palacid fdr vdlhis acvdlivivdly.)

    RAndad vdld bddk. Tdn, usAnd a VAndnn diagram vdld cdmparAnd vdld diffAndrAndncAnds And similarivdliAnds df vdld AndvAndnvdls basAndd dn vdlwd dr mdrAnd characvdlAndrs’ pdinvdls df viAndw.