- How to deal with when your spouse is lying
- The importance of honesty in marriage
- How to find out if you want to be with the man who cheated on you?
- How to start an awkward conversation in a relationship?
- How to mend a relationship after a betrayal
Communicate and work for a healthy relationship
People lie for all sorts of reasons, but when you’re the recipient of a lie, you rarely feel good. Sometimes people lie, fearing the other person’s reaction, feel they are not good enough, protect another person’s feelings, or enable their own or another person’s addiction. KłamsTwo can also be associated with attachment difficulties from early childhood. Whatever the reason, learn to overcome the lies in your relationship and work your way to a healthier place.
Who can you control
The only person you can control is yourself. Direct your thoughts, feelings, actions and reactions. No matter how much you want the other person to tell the truth, it has to be his or her decision. When two emotions, control or self-esteem, are specifically related to another person’s behavior or feelings, it can be helpful to find therapy or a support group for possible problems with codependency, attachment, or trauma.
Share your experience
When you suspect someone is lying, it’s important to convey what you know about the situation, as well as your thoughts and feelings. Instead of speaking with the words “you” blaming the other person, use the “I” statements to convey your experience. For instance:
- “When I found that empty alcohol bottle that was still wet inside, I thought you had started drinking and I was afraid that the children and I would lose you. Boję się, że przyszłość, którą dla nas wyobrażam, n będzie możliwy."
“When you said you would have no internet service but I niced you talking with Joe online, I thought that you really just wanted me out of your hair and I felt hurt, rejected and abandoned.
Remember to keep your voice calm and compassionate and to maintain eye contact. When you talk about your observations, thoughts and feelings, you are talking about what you can control: yourself. It seems less threatening to the other person, who may reassure you or confess any wrongdoing. He can get defensive or angry, but remember that his reaction is his responsibility, not two.
Remember that the other person may or may not be honest about their actions, even if you have been transparent and honest about your experience. Listen actively la sua risposta, notando il suo tono, le emozioni dietro ciò che dice e se i fatti concordano e hanno senso per te. Breathe deeply, stay calm, and repeat what you feel to make sure you feel what it is about to convey. For instance:
- “I feel the struggle and the pain in what you say. You look scared that I might get mad at you and not believe you. I understand two concerns. You say you brought Fred home from a meeting to help me sober up while I was out of town and that the bottle is not two. It is true?
“I hear that you are overwhelmed and were afraid to hurt my feelings by telling me you needed a day off from our conversation. You thought you were protecting me. I still feel hurt, but I understand where you are coming from. Is this correct?”
Set the correct limits
When you hear the other person respond to your two fears, tune in to your emotional state. Are you feeling angry or are you experiencing overwhelming feelings? Maybe it’s time to set healthy boundaries to take care of your well-being. The limits to be set will vary depending on the history of the two of your relationship and whether you are satisfied with the other person’s response. Jeśli czujesz, że nadal jest nprawdziwy, a w Twoim związku jest historia kłamstwa, być może będziesz musiał ustalić bardziej sztywne granice, niż gdyby to była jednorazowa rzecz, a twój partner przyznał się do zła i jest zaangażowany w naprawien tego . Here are some ideas for defining the limits:
- “As soon as I can talk to Fred to see if he was here over the weekend, I’m ready to let it go and move on. I want to trust you and need your support. Czy chciałbyś zadzwonić do Freda, czy też powinnem ?"
“I am still hurting and dealing with feelings of rejection that I know do n reflect how you really feel. I am choosing to stay offline while you are taking your breaks to focus on self-care, so that I do n take it so personally.”
Once you’ve set your boundary, be sure to follow it. Pursue your healthy communication patterns and take care of yourself, regardless of what the other person is doing.
Relationships can be difficult and lies complicate matters even more as trust is broken. Each person in a relationship comes to the table with their strengths and weaknesses, their history and their dysfunctions. When everything seems overwhelming, hopeless, desperate, or you and your partner seem to go in circles, therapy can be extremely helpful. If lying in two about your relationship puts you or anyone else at risk, seek professional duplication and help with your safety plan. When lies are related to addiction, groups like Al-Anon provide the community and coping skills to move forward. No matter what happens to you or your relationship, you never have to go through it alone.
All professional dads
Baseball Hall of Famer Joe Sewell only used 1 club in his 14-year career and only scored 114 hits in 7,132 attempts. He was never convinced that a newer and more sophisticated club would improve his game. When he was in a crisis, instead of blaming his equipment, he did extra eyelid exercise and focused on his swing mechanics. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if more people had that same philosophy towards marriage?
You can’t control your wife’s actions, but work on you and trust the rest will take care of itself. When things go wrong, instead of immediately looking for a new replacement, we will instead focus on what we can control: how we can improve the mechanics of our relationship. How can we be more patient with our wife? More cautious? More loving? You can’t control your wife’s actions, but work on you and trust the rest will take care of itself. Here are 10 tips for becoming a better husband.
1. Ogni giorno, indirizza un "atto di gentilezza casuale" al your coniuge.
Plan for it, write down what you’re going to do, then check the deed off once it’s done. Chances are that being aware in this way will naturally lead to more.
2. Talk openly about your finances.
Surprise money never goes well, so take a few steps forward and involve your wife in an ongoing budget conversation. It doesn’t mean tracking her expenses. It does mean that you don’t keep secrets, you value her input, and you make important decisions as a team.
3. Make an effort to find out more about your wife.
– Do you know his favorite band?
– What books did you read last year / are you reading now?
-Where would you like to go if you had a three day weekend?
– Which restaurant did you dream of visiting?
4. Try some creative / imaginative ways to tell your wife how much you love her.
Don’t assume she knows. Even if she knows it, hearing it from you will cause a fire. Before long you’ll realize that you love her more. Here are some suggestions:
– At the start of the day, slip a note or love note into her bag.
– Invent dark anniversaries (first date, engagement day, day we moved into our first home, etc.), then celebrate together.
– Leave loving messages from the answering machine when you know it won’t be there.
– Make the bed and place a single rose on the pillow.
– Make a bubble bath for her and keep the house running continuously while she has fun.
– Color in the flashy sign and place it on the windshield of his car.
5. Plan the fun.
It doesn’t have to be expensive.
– Late night stroll on the beach
– Game night (Scrabble, Monopoly, Apples on Apples) and ice cream
Use your imagination.
6. Ignore your viewing habits and then cut your TV viewing time in half.
Use the extra time to do something for or with your wife. Look at other uses of the media too: What does it tell us about the two relationship priorities?
7. List 5 things you are most passionate about and spend most of your time on.
If the two wives aren’t first on this list, think about what steps you can take to be sure.
8. Confide in some friends.
Make sure they’re friends who are in a relationship with some “spark.” Ask for their support and encouragement; exchange ideas.
9. Be cautious about being positive.
Look at your interactions with your wife – what percentage is conflicting? How often do you fight? Are you telling yourself jokes? What’s the ratio of purely informational dialogue to talking that advances the relationship? Now make a concerted effort to start positive, intimate, and redeeming conversations. Learn a new joke every day if necessary; the point is to be proactive, not reactive.
10. Try the suggestions.
OK, I know it sounds intense, but think of it as a 30,000km tune-up. Tell your wife you’re looking for ways to be a better husband, and that you want to work on moving forward all the time. This may include a few weekly meetings, a marriage enrichment seminar, a group of couples in two faith communities, or any number of other deliberate interventions.
Sound out: what are other ways to be a better husband?
Collect the question
Incontra tua moglie stasera e chiedi: "Qual è una cosa semplice che entrambi possiamo fare meglio per migliorare i nostri matrimoni?"
When a man enters into a covenant with his bride, he is committed to loving, respecting and loving her. Come marito cristiano, la forza (Joe) di cui ho bisogno per adempiere a queste responsabilità deriva in definitiva dal mio rapporto con Dio. It requires a moment-by-moment dependence on God’s Spirit. Maintenance takes time and discipline, especially given the many obstacles we encounter: in my case, raising a child with special needs.
Śluby, które złożyliśmy, obejmowały „na dobre lub na złe, w chorobie i w zdrowiu”. The possibility of having a child with special needs has never been considered, nor has there been any discussion of how much stress and strain this will have on our two couples. And in the midst of life’s challenges is anher: being the husband and father God calls us to be.
We can’t let the obstacles of life get in the way of building a strong marriage. When we are unable to selflessly love our wife as Christ loved the Church (Ephesians 5:25), we begin to compromise with this very dear relationship. As a husband, and as the father of a special needs adult child, it’s a daily challenge to stay focused when the challenges of caregiving collide with the needs of my wife and other children.
Raising a child with special needs while nurturing my relationship with my wife requires that I have time to communicate with my wife every day. What I need most is my love. In our situation, I went to work while my wife stayed home and she took care of our children. When one or more of children have special needs, you can be certain that a wife’s daily responsibilities have been full and challenging. Recognizing this fact was the first step in realizing that no matter what day it was, my wife “had a day” too!
When our kids were small, it was great when it gave me time to regroup from my day. We dined together as a family and then I gave her a break from the kids. I’d take the kids for walks in nice weather or play in the backyard. As the children got older, my time with them could include helping with homework, playing video games, or just chatting. Cindi she appreciated this time herself, without worrying about the needs of the children; time alone to think without the noise and commotion that she’d endured all day long; time for a night out with friends just to “get away”. For me, taking care of children was a way of serving my wife, letting her know that I was devoted to her and that I loved her. As a result, we were able to demonstrate God’s unconditional love and grace to each other and to the children, and become an example to those around us.
Besides my role as a husband, one of my biggest titles is “Dad”. Christian fathers must love our children selflessly. We show our children that we care for them by giving them priority. Cultivating a relationship with every child takes time, discipline, and intentionality. When so much time is spent caring for the child(ren) with special needs, it’s easy to lose track of our other children’s needs. Spending both qualitative and quantitative time with other children is challenging. Everyone must know with absolute certainty that we love him. Spending time with them makes them feel protected and loved.
I wanted to “go out” on purpose with my two friends. Our regular appointments included local restaurants, events and festivals, a zoo, walking, jogging, movies, ice cream and other fun stuff. Our appointments were also an opportunity to talk, ask questions and sometimes listen to them. These are some of my fondest childhood memories and we still enjoy the unique time together (even with one daughter married and the other in college).
We invested time in teaching all of our children God’s Word. We’d discuss current topics of interest to each and used these opportunities to guide them. Those teaching moments may not be connected to Joey in the same way they do with girls, but we turned it on as much as possible. Undoubtedly, Joey required a different kind of time and attention.
As a dad, I once dreamed of playing sports with a son – maybe even coaching – but because that wasn’t to be, I found other ways to “connect” with Joey. He spent a lot of time doing repetitive therapy in his early years, but as he grew up, we started connecting by playing video games. We learned to play sports together… through the video! He excels at baseball and my forte’ is football, but we still connect and have fun together!
Yes, it takes time. But if we are to pass on our faith and influence future generations for Christ, we need to spend time with each of our children. When we leave a pious legacy, we can look back with great satisfaction.
It’s been my observation that many men are overwhelmed by the responsibility of being the husbands and fathers God has called them to be. However, we have this assurance: “nothing is impossible for God” (Lk 1:37). When we ask God to strengthen us as humans, we can give our children not just an inheritance, but an inheritance. And we can give our wife what she needs most: to be loved, respected and respected.
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As fathers, it’s important that we are intentional and present with our children, especially as they grow into adults. When you take the time to be a part of their lives and interests, you connect with them and build a relationship with them. Being present even in moments of work is essential to develop a bond with your baby so that he can feel comfortable coming to you with anything. However, making time for a wife is just as important as making time for your children. It’s easy to go all in with your kids, but sometimes, you fall back on your sword and your marriage suffers as a result. A strong marriage is essential for raising a strong family. Being a legendary father is all about balancing these relationships and making sure you’re giving it your all in each one. It’s definitely n the easy route, but it’s necessary on the path to living legendary.
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So you got married and became the husband of the vows. All those promises you made to your spouse really mean something, so it’s time to start walking. Fortunately, being a good husband isn’t impossible. It is about following your heart, your conscience, and acting with love for your spouse. These simple steps, when taken seriously, can help you and your significant other in a better future.
Parent-child relationships can be fraught with communication problems and anger. Here’s how to improve your father-son relationship.
The mother writes: “My husband and our 16-year-old son have relationship difficulties. Our son complains that his father always judges and criticizes him. My husband complains that our son is making fun and shirking. The problem is that they both can’t stand each other because they think the latter is so different, but in reality they are very similar to each other. Any suggestions?
Struggles in the relationship between father and son
The fights between fathers and sons are legendary. In some fathers’ minds, the child holds this promise, giving them the opportunity to relive an “improved” version of their childhood. Conversely, in the minds of some children, being a father means bearing the burden of responsibility for fulfilling the father’s dreams and goals. This makes it a fairly flammable mixture; especially when the autonomy of mid and late adolescence begins to take effect, leaving dreams and destinations in the dust.
Generations can separate fathers and children, but personalities cut communication and relationships. Similar personality traits, such as self-centeredness, judgment, or stubbornness, can set the stage for wars of verbal devastation in which no one wins and the victim is the father-son bond. To gain more positive momentum, one of the fighters must stop and see the bigger picture of what’s at stake. The work of considering future implications rests with the adult.
Ways to resolve the conflict between father and son
Fathers, here are some ideas for achieving one of the most important goals: a more positive and caring relationship with your baby:
Soften the criticism to make it sound more like a suggestion and less like an engraving. Fathers shouldn’t always hide their opinions, but simply be more sensitive to sharing them. Resist the urge to label your behavior, such as calling it selfish or idiotic, as such words leave a stinging mark on the relationship. Consider the context and the time as the best reviews may be rejected due to the insensitivity shown during delivery. Get in the habit of preceding comments by listing the positives before the negatives. And finally, try not to embarrass your child because you will surely regret it.
Balance the debate with the review so that you are not always against opinion. Some fathers tend to have the opposite point of view when their youngster expresses himself. The goal may be to help children consider alternative points of view or learn to defend themselves, but fathers can appear as verbal bullies as a result. The fact that teens still demand praise and recognition from their parents has been overlooked. Just because they can be as tall as we are doesn’t justify our relationship with them as we might with our adult friends when we discuss the point of contention. Deep down, the ego is still built, strengthened or weakened by the words of mothers and fathers.
Find common topics and activities resistant to judgment and criticism. Positive and related relationships take a long time to play without thinking without editorial content. Make sure you spend time together laughing at Adam Sandler movies, remembering your favorite vacation, or doing something completely unusual for you, but completely fun for your child. Turn off your “critical voice” in these moments so that your child can see you as a normal person who likes them, rather than someone charged with criticizing him.
Keep an open mind to the opinions of your spouses. Of the people most likely to comment on two of his paternity, two of his wives may be on top. He sees you better and worse and acts as a soundboard for two of his teenagers. This probably means that she has more knowledge of what’s wrong with her parent-child relationship than you do and what your only contribution is. She might also have some tips on how to build a more positive bond as she faced the same challenge and probably learned a few things in the course.
by Mike Bennett
Husbands and future husbands have great blessings and great responsibilities. How can we better play this vital biblical role?
Disclaimer time: By writing this article, I’m n claiming to be a great husband. As my wife and I approach our 30th anniversary, I admire her patience, her support, and her persistence in my mistakes, quirks and sins. I also know that I need to improve. Hence this Bible study.
As for the strange acrostic that HUSBAND writes, well, the Bible uses the acrostic as a memory aid, and maybe that will help me remember these seven points.
So what does the Bible say about husbands and becoming good?
"Allo stesso modo, i mariti vivono con comprensione, dando"honora wife as the weakest vessel and as joint heirs in the grace of life, so that your prayers are not bound "(1 Pt 3, 7, italics added).
Okazywan honoru jest ważne we wszystkich związkach(
Respect all people. Love brotherly. Fear God. Honor the king.
"Onora your padre e tua madre, affinché tu viva a lungo nel paese che il Signore, your Dio, ti dà.
King James Version (NKJV)The Scriptures, King James Version © 1982 by Thomas Nelson “>Exodus 20:12). Honor is especially important—and difficult—in the marriage relationship. It’s easier to show honor to someone you rarely see. But when we see our mates at their worst state and when our little quirks and differences begin to grate on each other over time, it is more difficult to always show honor and respect.
Bóg sprawił, że pragnmy i potrzebujemy honoru. So, according to the golden rule (
So whatever you want people to do to you, do it too, because it’s the Law and the Prophets.
The same is trueSupport. God made women to Support men(
And the Lord God said, “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a Supporter comparable to him.”
King James Version (NKJV)The Scriptures, King James Version © 1982 by Thomas Nelson “>Genesis 2:18), and He would expect us to Support our wives as well. Helping our wives is anher way of showing them honor.
Men often joke that this may seem like an impossible task. Physics genius Stephen Hawking has pondered the mysteries of the universe, but says women “are a complete mystery.”
But the apostle Peter ordered husbands to “live with themzrozumien"(1 Peter 3: 7).
Study Bible from NKJV explains it this way: “A Christian husband should be intimately aware of his wife’s needs, her strengths and weaknesses, and her goals and desires. He should know as much as possible in order to respond better. “
God created sex to strengthen the marriage bond. Jest częścią uczynnia dwojga ludzi „jednym ciałem” i ma być czystym, honorowym związkiem bez wstydu(
Therefore, the man will leave his father and mother and join his wife and they will become one body. And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and they were not ashamed.
MałżeńsTwo jest honorowe u wszystkich, a łoże nskalane; but God will judge fornicators and adulterers.
We need to build a strong and unbreakable bond with our wives. This doesn’t mean we should be inflexible. Indeed, this strong connection requires the utmost flexibility and delicacy. Our wives need to know that we will do nothing to hurt or embarrass them. Sex is not about self-fulfillment, but about loving and patient care for your spouse.
I’m n talking about 007, but about a gluelike bond. When the Pharisees asked Jesus about divorce, He asked if they hadn’t read, “‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined the his wife, and the Two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one body. Therefore, what God has united, let no one put apart “(Mt 19: 5-6).
"Opuścićsignifica "abbandonare";joined thesignifica "attenersi" "(Study Bible from NKJV). We need to build a strong and unbreakable bond with our wives. This doesn’t mean we should be inflexible. Indeed, this strong connection requires the utmost flexibility and delicacy.
Always be faithful
Marriage is a commitment and a covenant with our wife and with God. We must always be faithful in all respects, even in our minds (
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Never stop loving
We must not succumb to the marriage killers that suck the love out of marriage: jealousy, pride, chamsTwo, selfishness, the accusation of getting angry, thinking badly, or enjoying sin (including pornography).
Interestingly, in his description of what love is, Paul lists all the things that love isn(
Love suffers for a long time and is kind; love does n envy; love does n parade itself, is n puffed up; does n behave rudely, does n seek its own, is n provoked, thinks no evil; does n rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth
Always have fun
Wyraź swoje oddan, podziw i pragnn; rekindle romance (
How fair you are and how kind you are
O love, with two delights!
Like a loving deer and a graceful doe,
May her breasts always please you;
And always admire his love.
King James Version (NKJV)The Scriptures, King James Version © 1982 by Thomas Nelson “>Proverbs 5:19). Life isn’t all about fun and entertainment, of course, but God encourages rejoicing and giving joy to others. A husband should bring happiness to his wife(
“When a man has taken a new wife, he shall n go out to war or be charged with any business; he przez rok lui będzie wolny w domu i przynsie szczęście swojej żon, którą lui zabrał.
We must endure the trials of life, but we must also rejoice! Celebrate the blessings of two weddings often!
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About the author
Mike Bennett is the editorial director of The Church of God, a worldwide association in Dallas, Texas. He coordinates the Life, Hope & Truth website, Discern magazine and the Life, Hope & Truth Weekly Newsletter. He is also part of the Personal Correspondence team of ministers who answer questions sent to Life, Hope & Truth.
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Today, more and more fathers like you are experiencing the satisfaction and rewards of playing a more active role in your child’s life. Read and discover how these 10 simple ideas can Support(or remind) you to start today on a new path—one that will impact your relationships. and your child’s future.
1) Honor your children’s mother
Jedną z najlepszych rzeczy, które jako tata możesz zrobić dla swoich dzieci, jest szanowan ich matki. If you’re married, maybe it’s obvious, but I’ll say it just in case; keep your marriages strong and healthy. Poświęć czas, przynajmnj raz w tygodniu, na pracę nad tym związkiem i utrzymuj go silnym. If you’re n married, it’s still important to respect and support the mother of your children. A father and mother who respect each other and let their children know provide a safe environment for their children. Kiedy dzieci widzą, jak ich rodzice szanują się nawzajem, są bardziej prawdopodobne, że poczują, że są równż akceptowane i szanowane.Dowiedz się więcej or ochron swojego małżeństwa.
2) Spend time with your children
It’s more complicated than sounds, I know. Ale to, jak tata spędza czas, lei mówi dzieciom, co jest dla ngo ważne. No doubt you have heard us say: I bambini scrivono "amore": TEMPO. Jeśli zawsze wydajesz się zbyt zajęty dla swoich dzieci, będą czuły się zandbane bez względu na to, co powiesz. Cenn dzieci często oznacza poświęcan innych rzeczy, ale ważne jest, aby spędzać czas z dziećmi. Children grow up so fast. Lost opportunities are lost forever. Potrzebujesz pomysłów na spędzen czasu? Here are 7 ways to connect with your children.
3) Listen first, then speak
Too often a father only talks to his children when they are in trouble. Therefore, many children may wince when their mother says, “Your father wants to talk to you.” Prenditi del tempo per ascoltare le idee e i problemi dei youri figli. Listening Supports them feel respected and understood.Start listening and talking to your children when they are small so that difficult topics become easier to deal with as they get older.
4) Discipline with love
All children need guidance and discipline, n as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Przypomnij dzieciom or konsekwencjach ich działań i zapewnij znaczące nagrody za pożądane zachowan. Fathers who discipline calmly and fairly show love for their children.Learn 8 things you should know about your child’s punishment.
5) Be a role model
Fathers are role models to their kids, whether they realize it or n. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing that she deserves the respect of boys and what to look for in her husband. Fathers can teach their children the important things in life by showing honesty, humility, and responsibility.Here’s a great example of dad as a role model in case you need it.
6) Be a teacher
Zbyt często myślimy, że nauczan to coś, co robią inni w budynku szkolnym. But a father who educates his children about what is good and what is bad and encourages them to do their best will ensure that his children make the right choices. Involved fathers use everyday examples to Support their children learn the basic lessons of life.Zastanów się, jaką istotną wiedzę posiadasz i tylko Ty posiadasz w odnsieniu do muzyki i klasycznych filmów w tym momencie!
7) Eat together as a family
Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch or dinner) can be an important part of a healthy family life. Oprócz zapewnnia pewnej struktury w pracowity dzień, daje dzieciom możliwość porozmawiania or tym, co robią i co chcą robić. To także dobry czas na słuchan ojców.Co najważnjsze, jest to czas, w którym rodziny każdego dnia są razem.
8) Read to your children
In a world where television and technology dominate children’s lives, it is important for fathers to try to read to their children. Children learn best by doing and reading, seeing and listening. Read to your children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read for themselves. Zaszczepien swoim dzieciom miłości do czytania jest jednym z najlepszych marciaobów na zapewnn im rozwoju przez całe życie. Napisaliśmy coś zatytułowanego 6 wskazówek, jak pokazać dziecku, że czytan jest nsamowite. Let’s be honest, it’s Supportful.
9) Show affection
Children need a sense of security that comes from knowing that their family is wanted, accepted and loved. Tato, wygodn przytul swoje dzieci. Okazywan uczuć każdego dnia to najlepszy marciaób, aby pokazać dzieciom, że je kochasz.
10) Uświadom sobie, że praca ojca nigdy się n kończy
Even as children grow up and are ready to leave the house, they will continue to turn to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Niezależn od tego, czy chodzi or dalszą naukę, nową pracę czy ślub, fathers continue to play a vital role in their children’s lives as they grow up and perhaps marry and build their own families.
Który z tych 10 Sposaobów uważasz za najtrudnjszy? How come?
September 3, 2017 Updated November 7, 2018
Thanks to my husband for some down-to-earth shit. Kocham go i doceniam i chcę, żeby lui wiedział, że kiedy robi coś takiego jak zabieran dzieci do parku, podczas gdy ja trzymam się z dala po szczególn trudnym dniu w domu, poprawia moje życie. Dziękuję mu za zmianę paskudnej pieluchy, którą zdecydowan wyczułem jako pierwszy. Dziękuję mu, kiedy zachęca mn do wyjścia i spotkania z przyjaciółmi, kiedy poczucie winy mamy zmusza mn do pozostania w domu.
The only time he can’t take the praise is when I get a text from a friend that she can’t meet me for dinner because her husband has never been alone with the kids at night, or hear a story about one’s husband pouting because he got home from work and dinner wasn’t ready. Never mind that my friend was sick herself while taking care of her sick kids all day — Johnny Husbo can’t be bothered to pick up some pizza and an extra box of tissues on his way home from work. He still wants a roast.
I walk away from these conversations and immediately thank my husband for n being a complete asshole. And every time, he balks at the idea that all he really has to do to be a good husband is n be a terrible husband. Sword na ngo chwała.
This is n to toot my horn over having a great husband.
Chodzi o to, aby zapytać, co do cholery jest n tak z tymi, którym n przeszkadza to robićminimum must be a good husband. It is n that hard to n be a shitty husband because there are only Twopodstawowe zasady, aby zrobić to cholern poprawn:
2. Be considerate.
Two cose. Your job is Two things.
And if those Two things seem out of your reach, please take a long, hard look in the mirror that involves telling your reflection to stop being such a dickwad and to adult the fuck up.
Every relationship has its own dynamics and marriage requires a certain balance of responsibility. Sometimes that balance involves one person handling the majority of the cooking, and there is nhing wrong with that being a mutually agreed upon role. What is wrong is walking in the door at the end of the day and grunting an inquiry about when dinner will be ready instead of greeting your wife and asking what you can do to Support.
Better yet, don’t ask. You have Two eyeballs and a brain so you are fully capable of looking around, assessing the situation in front of you, and Supporting. Empty table? Grab some plates and start whipping. Carrots, knife and cutting board sitting on the counter? Go cut. There’s a start.
Jeśli jesteś mężem i ojcem, który sun przez życie, prawdopodobn twoja żona rutynowo toruje ci drogę i robi to na własny koszt. Jeśli słyszysz, jak lei lamentuje nad brakiem czasu, kiedy lei musi wziąć prysznic i nigdy nic z tym n robiła, lei jesteś zły w swojej her pracy. Pamiętaj, że Twoim zadanm jako męża jest bycie miłym i uprzejmym.
If you are n kind enough to peel your butt off the couch to watch your own damn kids so she can take a real shower that doesn’t involve setting the nozzle to power wash and hoping she sprayed all the grime off from the last four days , you are bad at your job.
If you feel the need to lift yourself above her by belittling her work and effort, questioning what she even does all day, and n offering an ounce of gratitude, you are bad at your job.
Jeśli zachowujesz się jak jakiś nudolny głupek, jeśli chodzi or opiekęyourdzieci lub podstawowe utrzyman i zarządzanyour home, you are bad at your job.
All you have to do is n be a jerk and think of the needs of the one person who anticipates all of your own. The one person you promised to love and cared for and formed a family. Do those Two simple things, and you are at minimum a decent husband.
If you can’t be bothered to be nice and considerate, you are at best anher child for her to take care of, and at worst, going to be signing over half your shit in divorce mediation because she deserves better. So do your fucking job. Now.